Both Me and DH are divorcees. He had a son who is 11 from the previous marriage (care and control under the mom of the child) His son only comes over weekend. DH very anxious about the kid.. very pamper and love the kid, to the extend that boy being naughty, and no disciplinary action to be taken on him. DH will reserved all his annual leaves to be taken in school holiday so to spend time with his son. Even I request, always given excuses that work load cant take.
DH ex-wife taking that boy to be a killer weapon to damage our marriage .Ever-since we married, his ex wife had been demanding for a rise in maintenance and DH had been giving in to her by agree to it.DH always think that he owe his ex-wife, (who is the person that walk out of the marriage) because she had given him a son.
I had lost my daughter this year due to miscarriage. Lost her when I was 16 weeks
DH will not care or bother whenever his son is back. I feel very hurt and sad. DH very care of his son feeling . DH always quarrel and agrue with me over his son matter.
DH always say to me that he love me and I m in his heart but thru action is not.
Please advice me how to be a stepmom. how to accept such attitude of DH ( was shower after marriage and the lost of our baby)
DH ex-wife taking that boy to be a killer weapon to damage our marriage .Ever-since we married, his ex wife had been demanding for a rise in maintenance and DH had been giving in to her by agree to it.DH always think that he owe his ex-wife, (who is the person that walk out of the marriage) because she had given him a son.
I had lost my daughter this year due to miscarriage. Lost her when I was 16 weeks
DH will not care or bother whenever his son is back. I feel very hurt and sad. DH very care of his son feeling . DH always quarrel and agrue with me over his son matter.
DH always say to me that he love me and I m in his heart but thru action is not.
Please advice me how to be a stepmom. how to accept such attitude of DH ( was shower after marriage and the lost of our baby)