anguishedwife
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whatever shall pass shall pass
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Thank for all your support and advice.
He had kneel down in front of my mum and also to me to beg for forgiveness. Until today he is still trying to salvage.
But he is not the man I once knew. My love for him died. I showed him my final divorce terms this morning. I told him to come down meet my lawyer next week.
I know deep down inside he cares for family now. But he did not love us, he abandoned family when he did all those nonsense then. I cannot forgive, I can never forget. I can never be near him again. In fact I told him to leave the house tonight.
From this forum, there are many husbands straying. It seems so common, everywhere. It wreck havoc to families, especially when children are involved. I can imagine how the wives deal with these.
Actually, i have the same thinking as her. If you respect your wife and cares about her feelings, i don't think one will stray. The action of straying be it physical, emotional or both is an act of disrespect for your spouse.What made u so sure that he does not love you & the family despite he was fooling around. I hope ur love die on him is not impulsive.
There is only 2% such kind of people. hehe!I don't know if you will forgive him. It depends on you. Few men don't touch other women in their lives.
Hi Ladies,
Just because you read too many cheating husband and claim all men are ass hole. Do you aware that there is a rise in cheating wives as well. It just that husband didn’t express out (save face and no face). LOL. I am one of the victim and we are in the mid of divorcing.
My two cents’ worth :-
Divorce if you think you can manage your family without him (financial and father love) and also your own family blessing and support. If YES, go ahead and divorce.
Or if you are to give him a chance, get him to start all over again as boyfriend girlfriend relationship courting in order to win you back. He will do that if he still love you.
Life is too short, look forward and enjoy.
Well well. In some way do agreed. Not only men will have affair. But women as well.
But then again, the ratio of women having affair is very very low, compare to men.
Most divorce case (on affair) is 99% are mainly because of men having affair outside.