hi guys,
This is my first post and although I haven't officially checked to see if I am pregnant, I'm almost certain that I am. Will be doing a home pregnancy test tmr.
Here's the thing. My husband's brother and his Wife (my SIL for short) have been battling with infertility for three years. They tried two years of IUI and this June hey did their IVF and she's 3-4 weeks pregnant now. However she's been bleeding and having cramps and is a complete wreck and has told me that she feels it is time for her to accept the situation (that she may lose the baby). She won't actually know as her first ultrasound is in 2 weeks. My husband and I got married in December and have recently been talking abt starting a family. I have known that hey have been having fertility issues and always wanted them to have a child before us. As I married the second Son of the family, I didn't want the birth order of who becomes a Father first to get messed up. And I've prayed and told my relatives (who have questioned us about having kids) that I would only plan a child after my SIL went for her IVF. So last month after my in laws started on the IVF and the fetus was implanted... My Husband and I figured it was finally the right time to start. Little did I know that the first time we tried would end up having me miss my period for 5 days. And we didn't even try during my fertile period! It was 2 days before my period!
So now I'm just sitting here wondering what I'm gg to do about my pregnancy (if I really am inbred pregnant) and what happens IF my Sister In law has a miscarriage.
I wish and pray that her baby and pregnancy is smooth stating from tomorrow because I can't bring myself to test for pregnancy using those home kits at the moment... Neither am I brave enough to tell her if I am.
Any one have any experience on this issue? Any advice will greatly be appreciated...
This is my first post and although I haven't officially checked to see if I am pregnant, I'm almost certain that I am. Will be doing a home pregnancy test tmr.
Here's the thing. My husband's brother and his Wife (my SIL for short) have been battling with infertility for three years. They tried two years of IUI and this June hey did their IVF and she's 3-4 weeks pregnant now. However she's been bleeding and having cramps and is a complete wreck and has told me that she feels it is time for her to accept the situation (that she may lose the baby). She won't actually know as her first ultrasound is in 2 weeks. My husband and I got married in December and have recently been talking abt starting a family. I have known that hey have been having fertility issues and always wanted them to have a child before us. As I married the second Son of the family, I didn't want the birth order of who becomes a Father first to get messed up. And I've prayed and told my relatives (who have questioned us about having kids) that I would only plan a child after my SIL went for her IVF. So last month after my in laws started on the IVF and the fetus was implanted... My Husband and I figured it was finally the right time to start. Little did I know that the first time we tried would end up having me miss my period for 5 days. And we didn't even try during my fertile period! It was 2 days before my period!
So now I'm just sitting here wondering what I'm gg to do about my pregnancy (if I really am inbred pregnant) and what happens IF my Sister In law has a miscarriage.
I wish and pray that her baby and pregnancy is smooth stating from tomorrow because I can't bring myself to test for pregnancy using those home kits at the moment... Neither am I brave enough to tell her if I am.
Any one have any experience on this issue? Any advice will greatly be appreciated...