Just to share...
I didnt have a confinement nanny. I only have my DH n helper during my confinement. I engaged a helper 2 - 3 mths b4 I was due. DH was my confinement "nanny". He would cook my meals n on days when he has 2 go out 4 meetings, my mom will b there 2 help.
My mom helps me 2 look after DD wif d help of helper. Helper's main chore is housework, n my mom's main job is 2 look after my DD. I once had 2 change my helper cos she was upset dat we didnt let her take care of DD. However, as I have made it v clear 2 agent dat her job is to do housework n cook, I dont expect her 2 take care of my DD. I just want her 2 do well in her daily chore. Since she wasnt happy, agent told me 2 let her go since she still insist on wanting 2 care 4 my gal.
There is nothing wrong wif wanting 2 get a helper 2 look after your little ones, but need 2 strike a balance. Can't expect them 2 look after LO well n expect all household chores 2 b done. I have a friend who constantly had 2 change helper as she felt d helper cant do wat she wants... I saw d list of things she wants d helper 2 do... everyday must wash floors after d kids have their meals... curtains wash every week... cook 4 d kids... bring d kids 2 pre - school... ironing clothes... marketing...
Frankly I told her... if she herself cant do it... dont expect d helper 2 do it... Helper sleeps late 2 complete, yet expect helper 2 do nite feed... I think it's too much... We need 2 b fair...