I had a medical abortion at home but I don't know what to do with the foetus

Beverly Lim

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I'm only 21 and it was my first pregnancy.
I needed to do cheap abortion so I ordered Misoprostol cytotec online to get it done.
(These pills are not available in SG but in USA. It's known as the abortion pill) The first two attempts by Bucally didn't work so the last attempt I inserted the pills vaginally and it was successful.
It happened early in the morning and I felt intense pain while I was in bed so I rushed to the bathroom. I gave a slight pushed and the foetus and placenta dropped into the toilet bowl.
My foetus was 11 weeks and I was not expecting it to be so big when I scoped it out of the toilet. I panicked and i don't know what to do with its body and I can't bear to just flush it down the toilet bowl like a dead gold fish. What can I do to the body? I'm just a student and my parents have no idea abt my pregnancy or my abortion.
 


Olie.Jim23

New Member
I'm only 21 and it was my first pregnancy.
I needed to do cheap abortion so I ordered Misoprostol cytotec online to get it done.
(These pills are not available in SG but in USA. It's known as the abortion pill) The first two attempts by Bucally didn't work so the last attempt I inserted the pills vaginally and it was successful.
It happened early in the morning and I felt intense pain while I was in bed so I rushed to the bathroom. I gave a slight pushed and the foetus and placenta dropped into the toilet bowl.
My foetus was 11 weeks and I was not expecting it to be so big when I scoped it out of the toilet. I panicked and i don't know what to do with its body and I can't bear to just flush it down the toilet bowl like a dead gold fish. What can I do to the body? I'm just a student and my parents have no idea abt my pregnancy or my abortion.
I'm only 21 and it was my first pregnancy.
I needed to do cheap abortion so I ordered Misoprostol cytotec online to get it done.
(These pills are not available in SG but in USA. It's known as the abortion pill) The first two attempts by Bucally didn't work so the last attempt I inserted the pills vaginally and it was successful.
It happened early in the morning and I felt intense pain while I was in bed so I rushed to the bathroom. I gave a slight pushed and the foetus and placenta dropped into the toilet bowl.
My foetus was 11 weeks and I was not expecting it to be so big when I scoped it out of the toilet. I panicked and i don't know what to do with its body and I can't bear to just flush it down the toilet bowl like a dead gold fish. What can I do to the body? I'm just a student and my parents have no idea abt my pregnancy or my abortion.
Oh dear... I'm sorry to hear this. Could you go to a funeral home and request for it to be cremated? Then keep the ashes in a religious place (Mosque, church, temple etc). I hope you have someone you trust who can be with you during this time. Take care.
 

Beverly Lim

New Member
Oh dear... I'm sorry to hear this. Could you go to a funeral home and request for it to be cremated? Then keep the ashes in a religious place (Mosque, church, temple etc). I hope you have someone you trust who can be with you during this time. Take care.
Thank you for yr kind words. May I know how much would that cost?
Personally I'm not a religious person but it pains me and I believe that everything have a life to it.
 

Olie.Jim23

New Member
Thank you for yr kind words. May I know how much would that cost?
Personally I'm not a religious person but it pains me and I believe that everything have a life to it.
I'm not sure about the cost but if that is an issue, speak with the people at the funeral home I'm sure they can help you out. It's ok if you're not religious. If you don't want to place the ashes there then think about a safe place you want to keep the ashes. Take care.
 

Janette Chong

New Member
Pls Go to KKH Women's clinic
Need to check your womb to make sure no remaining parts of the pregnancy stays inside of you - can cause infection and may cause complications like infertility in future.

Emergency : KKH 24 Hours O & G clinic


The organisation : Pregnancy Crisis Service 63399770
 
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sunflowerxrain

New Member
I'm only 21 and it was my first pregnancy.
I needed to do cheap abortion so I ordered Misoprostol cytotec online to get it done.
(These pills are not available in SG but in USA. It's known as the abortion pill) The first two attempts by Bucally didn't work so the last attempt I inserted the pills vaginally and it was successful.
It happened early in the morning and I felt intense pain while I was in bed so I rushed to the bathroom. I gave a slight pushed and the foetus and placenta dropped into the toilet bowl.
My foetus was 11 weeks and I was not expecting it to be so big when I scoped it out of the toilet. I panicked and i don't know what to do with its body and I can't bear to just flush it down the toilet bowl like a dead gold fish. What can I do to the body? I'm just a student and my parents have no idea abt my pregnancy or my abortion.
Hi can i know the link from which u purchased it?
 

hellocheng

New Member
I'm only 21 and it was my first pregnancy.
I needed to do cheap abortion so I ordered Misoprostol cytotec online to get it done.
(These pills are not available in SG but in USA. It's known as the abortion pill) The first two attempts by Bucally didn't work so the last attempt I inserted the pills vaginally and it was successful.
It happened early in the morning and I felt intense pain while I was in bed so I rushed to the bathroom. I gave a slight pushed and the foetus and placenta dropped into the toilet bowl.
My foetus was 11 weeks and I was not expecting it to be so big when I scoped it out of the toilet. I panicked and i don't know what to do with its body and I can't bear to just flush it down the toilet bowl like a dead gold fish. What can I do to the body? I'm just a student and my parents have no idea abt my pregnancy or my abortion.
OMG i think you need to see a gynae for this. I think abortion is complicated and you need to be checked further for pregnancy debris and all that can cause infection as your body will treat them as foreign object when not carefully scraped or removed from you. My friend has done the same with Dr Jen of women's clinic of singapore. He's quite famous on abortion cases. hope this helps.
 

chloechloe115

New Member
OMG i think you need to see a gynae for this. I think abortion is complicated and you need to be checked further for pregnancy debris and all that can cause infection as your body will treat them as foreign object when not carefully scraped or removed from you. My friend has done the same with Dr Jen of women's clinic of singapore. He's quite famous on abortion cases. hope this helps.
Dr Jen is a good friend of mine, and though he is accredited to provide abortion services, I think he's inclined more towards the surgical route in terms of doing the procedure. Since it's a lot safer and more effective, compared to the medical one.
 

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