husband watches porn during sex

myownhappiness

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does anyone also have this experience?

We are trying for baby and when its time to do the deed, he will take his hp and on the porn videos while asking me to arouse him and get on top of him. Thru the whole session, i will be the one doing the deed while he watches the porn.

I didnt say anything until the last two rounds, i just felt so sad and told him im bored of the sex we are having.

Is my husband losing interest in me?
 


Can't really say he's losing interest just base on such.
However, do have to say, he's starting to lose interest... That why need you to 'arose' him or porn in order to get 'hard' or horny.

Same again.. Have a talk with him, and see where it go wrong... Tell him your thoughts about it, and see what his reaction is.
 
Stop having sex with him, and see whether he initiates sex after being “starved” for some time. What's the point of having a baby if he's not even interested in initiating sex?


Meowie323,

He will only initiate sex once a month. Usually after my menstruation.

I really dont know where is wrong or what is wrong with me and my body that is not appealing to him that he needs to watch porn to have sex with me.

It really hurts me so, when his eyes are glued on the video than me.
 
Issue is not you. He is addicted to porn. Read up on it and talk to him about it. He'll prob deny it but ask him how will he like it that you have to watch another man and have him arouse you. Meaning not pay attention to him when having sex.
 
haiz... having sex with you while watching porn... isnt it fantasizing having sex with the porn star while he uses you as his tool?
if u r not comfortable with that...speak to him... otherwise try in the night with the lights switch off?
 
does anyone also have this experience?

We are trying for baby and when its time to do the deed, he will take his hp and on the porn videos while asking me to arouse him and get on top of him. Thru the whole session, i will be the one doing the deed while he watches the porn.

I didnt say anything until the last two rounds, i just felt so sad and told him im bored of the sex we are having.

Is my husband losing interest in me?

Your husband isn't losing interest in you.

The objective of this ML session is stressing him out.

Since you are trying for a bb and there's some 'timing' to be observed, why don't u go w the flow? I meant being proactive and engaging (w the video) during the session. If he watch porn while ML, rather than giving him a sulking face, why don't u get into the 'rhythm' and explore along w it?

Your stage of mind is equally important esp whn u r trying for a baby.

Count yourself blessed that he is watching porn and doing it w you.
 
does anyone also have this experience?

We are trying for baby and when its time to do the deed, he will take his hp and on the porn videos while asking me to arouse him and get on top of him. Thru the whole session, i will be the one doing the deed while he watches the porn.

I didnt say anything until the last two rounds, i just felt so sad and told him im bored of the sex we are having.

Is my husband losing interest in me?

No, probably the frequency is too regular in order to catch the window period and he may be losing libido and may be stressed out, also he may need the sound which is lacking in the room so he need it fro the video, dont worry is just part of process of bm,
Trust and communication is 2 ways to make sex life interesting... jiayou...
 

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