Initially I just wanted to go MOS and see what's so gd abt MOS that's keeping my hus there every Fri till 5-6am Sat morn, even when I was pregnant during my final trimster, my hus would still be there every Fri nite. But unfortunately I saw what I shouldn't have seen and you can imagine my heart just dropped.....
I know many would asked, why didn't I walk up to them and gave the woman a slap across the face like in those TV dramas. Honestly, what's the point? What the TV dramas didn't show is after the slap we give them, in the end would only drives our husband further away and he would never admits that its any fault of his already esp after I were to slap the other woman. So just be smart abt it....use it against them instd.
According to him, it started around early aug...The woman is from his part time degree class.
I even asked my husband doesn't the fact that he is married irks her. Apparently it did but she still continue. What a joke!
I really wondered what's going on with some women these days. They have no values nor dignity at all. Hurting fellow sisters like that. She better pray hard that when she is married, her hus better not do the same to her....As I do believe in retributions! That's why I am not going to do anything drastic.
I decided to leave it in God's hands, to lead me to where He wants me to......and in His time he will heal me from the pain and hurt I am suffering.
Actually I have another close friend who is also going through the same. And we have also each other's shoulder to cry on whenever we need. Our husbands are too similar and the irony is they are also very close friends......
LIke my friend said, she believes God brought the 4 of us together for a reason. Our husbands seems like cheating on us around the same time. The last one was 3 years ago and now also almost the same period......
I know many would asked, why didn't I walk up to them and gave the woman a slap across the face like in those TV dramas. Honestly, what's the point? What the TV dramas didn't show is after the slap we give them, in the end would only drives our husband further away and he would never admits that its any fault of his already esp after I were to slap the other woman. So just be smart abt it....use it against them instd.
According to him, it started around early aug...The woman is from his part time degree class.
I even asked my husband doesn't the fact that he is married irks her. Apparently it did but she still continue. What a joke!
I really wondered what's going on with some women these days. They have no values nor dignity at all. Hurting fellow sisters like that. She better pray hard that when she is married, her hus better not do the same to her....As I do believe in retributions! That's why I am not going to do anything drastic.
I decided to leave it in God's hands, to lead me to where He wants me to......and in His time he will heal me from the pain and hurt I am suffering.
Actually I have another close friend who is also going through the same. And we have also each other's shoulder to cry on whenever we need. Our husbands are too similar and the irony is they are also very close friends......
LIke my friend said, she believes God brought the 4 of us together for a reason. Our husbands seems like cheating on us around the same time. The last one was 3 years ago and now also almost the same period......