Lililipstick
New Member
Hey, i just want to know if there is anyone out there who is going through what i am going through right now. We’ve been married for 15 years now and we used to be inseparable.. we physically is the same but its just that we lost the spark we used to have. We have lost our communication to each other up till how we go to bed at night, separately. it seems we have grown apart since I had my 3rd child. We have been tired lately and we tend to want to do our own things when we have that little sliver of time available. No we havent had time to date since my baby was born more than a year ago last being intimate with each other was probably 2 months ago, even then it not as frequent as we used to. We havent had any alone time together except for groceries shopping. I dont know but i missed him so much. i feel that both of us took great care of the kids but when we have that time that we should spend time together, he will either play with his phone or game but we never talk.. no convo about US. I will just try to be by his side to start some conversation but end up chicken out and go to bed with my baby. It’s now have been us with work or us with kids, no us alone.. what can i do? Oh yes we have talked about his for 2 occasions before i went back to work post maternity but no changes.. help..