Hi Jojo, i had similar problem with #1, gave up bf after few weeks, and was taking domperidone then. Told my hubby it felt like squeezing water from rock ;> (ie the level of difficulty, of course breasts were softer, but was frustrated plus plus, which didn't help matters)
Decided to try bf longer for #2...found fenugreek very helpful and also recently bought Malunggay tea. Even when milk flow decrease when i go back to work, or was sick, the flow establishes easily again with fenugreek or the tea.
Agree with bb abt pump...hm wondering if we are talking abt the same type of pumps ;> used p-type for #1, now using mxxxxx #2 cos someone passed to me. Best pump ever, and manual one very handy to bring out! Could get 7 oz from both sides within half hour. Only limitation was own speed of pumping ;>
All the best!