Hello... can share your view?

NonAchiever

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May i ask how would you react if your husband (sole breadwinner) said to you in an arguement....when you have sacrificed a well paying career to take care of family and raise kids.

And now... he is doing well and he said such hurtful words.

What have you achived all these years?
 


What hurtful words he said?
Tell him back.. You go back to work force, and he stay home be 'stay home daddy'.
 
"What have you achived all these years?"...

Reply: Achieved to be a good woman behind the successful husband!!! Where is my achievement award? :D haaa...

(For you had taught the kids well and keeping house in good shape so that you-the husband can go work in peace. ). haaaa.. :D
 
There must be something happen that make him said so... have you try to think about this? Cox the pressure of his work? Or he has to do some housework after back from work too?

have a talk with him openly, every role in the family play a part, must learn to be appreciated..

if he think what you are doing at home is nothing and relax..

Then list down what u did daily, ask him to take one week leave to do whatever u did everyday..

Or, tell him that you wish to go out for work, put your kids at childcare center, but since you are gg out to work, all the housework must be shared between both of you as you are no longer full time at home...

Jia you mummy..
 
Many men takes our role as a sahm for granted. They feel to be taking of the children n household chores is easy. Sometime have to let them experience then they will know how tough it is.
 

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