chloe_chee
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hi puipui
i think ur mom is asking out of concern. So, just try to one ear in one ear out lor. Dun take it too hard.
Now that CNY is over, my in-laws have stopped asking. Anyway, they are too occupied with my bil's children. Hopefully i can work out something before the next CNY, before they start probing again. My husband told them upfront that he does not like to be asked on this topic, so they dare not ask him. It's just that during CNY, when they see other pple got children, they will start asking lor. It hurts, but aiyah, i just have to take it and move on lor. The more i dwell into it, the more upset i will feel. As long as my husband is supportive, i am contented already.
i have not thought of adoption. i dun think my in-laws will be very impressed with this option, from the way they react when they see that happened to their relatives. They will say that so-and-so was "bought" from china. Felt that was quite mean... *shudder* dare not think about it further.
i hope u feel better by sharing it on this platform. At least, it works for me, to have u gals as my "listeners". Sometimes, i dun wanna share certain thoughts with my husband cos i know it will make him unhappy. So, good that there are still the rest of u here for me to get things out of my chest!
i think ur mom is asking out of concern. So, just try to one ear in one ear out lor. Dun take it too hard.
Now that CNY is over, my in-laws have stopped asking. Anyway, they are too occupied with my bil's children. Hopefully i can work out something before the next CNY, before they start probing again. My husband told them upfront that he does not like to be asked on this topic, so they dare not ask him. It's just that during CNY, when they see other pple got children, they will start asking lor. It hurts, but aiyah, i just have to take it and move on lor. The more i dwell into it, the more upset i will feel. As long as my husband is supportive, i am contented already.
i have not thought of adoption. i dun think my in-laws will be very impressed with this option, from the way they react when they see that happened to their relatives. They will say that so-and-so was "bought" from china. Felt that was quite mean... *shudder* dare not think about it further.
i hope u feel better by sharing it on this platform. At least, it works for me, to have u gals as my "listeners". Sometimes, i dun wanna share certain thoughts with my husband cos i know it will make him unhappy. So, good that there are still the rest of u here for me to get things out of my chest!