motherbear
Member
Hi all mummies / mummies-to-be
i m a going to be first-time mum-to-be 2 mths down the road & will need some advices from u ladies here..
1) Do you give yr mum a token for helping you to baby sit yr chiLd? How much? market rate around $500 -$600?
2) Are there others who dont give at all? but probably give her a lump sum when its near to CNY?
3) i tot its quite a standard practice to give either yr mum or MIL a token for helping u to baby sit .. but ovr e`wkend..spoke tis tis to my hb casually & his tinking worries me as he felt tat taking care of grandchild should be "out of love" & nt be viewed as "paid to do a job" .. how do i convince him or make him understn tat tis money is nt given jus to pay for "the services" but as a token .. i dun wan to make it sound as though my Mum is very money-minded..
btw, my mum duno anyting abt this yet .. i m asking my hb how much do we tink we will to give.. just a casual chit-chat & I realise tat his tots differs frm mine so much..
Please share yr advices here ...
i m a going to be first-time mum-to-be 2 mths down the road & will need some advices from u ladies here..
1) Do you give yr mum a token for helping you to baby sit yr chiLd? How much? market rate around $500 -$600?
2) Are there others who dont give at all? but probably give her a lump sum when its near to CNY?
3) i tot its quite a standard practice to give either yr mum or MIL a token for helping u to baby sit .. but ovr e`wkend..spoke tis tis to my hb casually & his tinking worries me as he felt tat taking care of grandchild should be "out of love" & nt be viewed as "paid to do a job" .. how do i convince him or make him understn tat tis money is nt given jus to pay for "the services" but as a token .. i dun wan to make it sound as though my Mum is very money-minded..
btw, my mum duno anyting abt this yet .. i m asking my hb how much do we tink we will to give.. just a casual chit-chat & I realise tat his tots differs frm mine so much..
Please share yr advices here ...