Hi
We are happily married for 20 years.My husband will come and fetch me from work daily and we will have our dinner together everyday. He doesnt socialize alot and we spent alot of time together. We do not have any kids.
On weekends, my hubby will always be in his studyroom to surf websites and to read news.
I realized that my husband was suddenly very moody and suddenly became temperamental. I talked to him and he assured that he is ok.
By chance, I logged into his desktop and realized that my husband is dating other married guys. They have even met up in a hotel for fun in the afternoon for a couple of times. Reading through the exchanges,my husband will use his lunch time to meet up other bi-married guys or single gays. I have gotten all these details from the email exchange from the BW forum.I immediately checked on the the history of the websites he visited and gathered these data.
My heart shattered and I was deeply hurt. The hubby which I trusted most and believe in has actually betrayed me out totally. My hubby still dont know that I have discovered the secrets. I am lost and I still love my hubby alot and we are going for our vacation soon. I am torned apart.
Should I confront my hubby or should I seek a marriage counselor for advice.
There is this forum called www.blowingwind.org (BW forum)
1)The married guy (41 yrs old, 176 cm, 98 kg) will contact my hubby for fun. His BW ID is juzzmee. I set up an account to chat with him and he leaked out his affairs and one of them is with my husband.
2)This guy kept pestering my husband for sex. His Grindr account is T.H . His name is Tom.He even sent his naked pics to my husband.Realized that he is in my husband's facebook. His Facebook ID is Tom Heksen.
3) This guy is in his mid twenties. Chatting with him, he is such a messy guy coiled in messy relationships. His Facebook ID is Tony Machida. (Picture 5). While chatting, he revealed that he wished that my husband is his boyfriend.
Latest discoveries as at June 2018.
These guys recently texted my husband for sex. I managed to chat abit with them.
4) This guy is call Clarence Lee. His facebook is Clarence Lee but he has changed to Optimistic Mind. He is staying in Buangkok. His IG is clairylee (Freedom). His chasabl profile is Clairy (Mr Lonely). He is from Kuching. He has been chatting with my hubby from Year 2016.
I managed to post as a married guy and chatted with him, he said he teaches Dharma and conducts small dharma classes(wondering is it true). Then he asked me for sex. I pretend and said I know my husband. Clarence said that he has met my husband for lunch for afew times and they communicate often and also share songs in a singing app. The singing app is call Huang Ge and his ID is 906871. He sings terribly by the way.This disgusting Clarence even told me of his fling in onsen in Japan with a married guy. He even brought his dad to go onsen. But as his dad is there, he cant have fun with guys on the first night. I cant imagine a person who preach and teaches Dharma but seduces married guys to break up families. Karma will catch up with you.
As at today, I know Clarence is still secretly texting my hubby. I have evidence. The best is yet to come.
I really hate all these male home wreakers. I am posting these pictures so all sisters here can be aware of all these SLUTS.
I am really torn up and sadden by all these affairs. My heart keep sobbing everything I have to trace and dig information on my husband.
My hubby has since deleted away his SECRET Facebook which have all the above sluts in it.
SPIDY
We are happily married for 20 years.My husband will come and fetch me from work daily and we will have our dinner together everyday. He doesnt socialize alot and we spent alot of time together. We do not have any kids.
On weekends, my hubby will always be in his studyroom to surf websites and to read news.
I realized that my husband was suddenly very moody and suddenly became temperamental. I talked to him and he assured that he is ok.
By chance, I logged into his desktop and realized that my husband is dating other married guys. They have even met up in a hotel for fun in the afternoon for a couple of times. Reading through the exchanges,my husband will use his lunch time to meet up other bi-married guys or single gays. I have gotten all these details from the email exchange from the BW forum.I immediately checked on the the history of the websites he visited and gathered these data.
My heart shattered and I was deeply hurt. The hubby which I trusted most and believe in has actually betrayed me out totally. My hubby still dont know that I have discovered the secrets. I am lost and I still love my hubby alot and we are going for our vacation soon. I am torned apart.
Should I confront my hubby or should I seek a marriage counselor for advice.
There is this forum called www.blowingwind.org (BW forum)
1)The married guy (41 yrs old, 176 cm, 98 kg) will contact my hubby for fun. His BW ID is juzzmee. I set up an account to chat with him and he leaked out his affairs and one of them is with my husband.
2)This guy kept pestering my husband for sex. His Grindr account is T.H . His name is Tom.He even sent his naked pics to my husband.Realized that he is in my husband's facebook. His Facebook ID is Tom Heksen.
3) This guy is in his mid twenties. Chatting with him, he is such a messy guy coiled in messy relationships. His Facebook ID is Tony Machida. (Picture 5). While chatting, he revealed that he wished that my husband is his boyfriend.
Latest discoveries as at June 2018.
These guys recently texted my husband for sex. I managed to chat abit with them.
4) This guy is call Clarence Lee. His facebook is Clarence Lee but he has changed to Optimistic Mind. He is staying in Buangkok. His IG is clairylee (Freedom). His chasabl profile is Clairy (Mr Lonely). He is from Kuching. He has been chatting with my hubby from Year 2016.
I managed to post as a married guy and chatted with him, he said he teaches Dharma and conducts small dharma classes(wondering is it true). Then he asked me for sex. I pretend and said I know my husband. Clarence said that he has met my husband for lunch for afew times and they communicate often and also share songs in a singing app. The singing app is call Huang Ge and his ID is 906871. He sings terribly by the way.This disgusting Clarence even told me of his fling in onsen in Japan with a married guy. He even brought his dad to go onsen. But as his dad is there, he cant have fun with guys on the first night. I cant imagine a person who preach and teaches Dharma but seduces married guys to break up families. Karma will catch up with you.
As at today, I know Clarence is still secretly texting my hubby. I have evidence. The best is yet to come.
I really hate all these male home wreakers. I am posting these pictures so all sisters here can be aware of all these SLUTS.
I am really torn up and sadden by all these affairs. My heart keep sobbing everything I have to trace and dig information on my husband.
My hubby has since deleted away his SECRET Facebook which have all the above sluts in it.
SPIDY
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