ThirtiesGuy
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My wife and I are in our thirties and are TTCing.
We went to a fertility forum recently and the doc recommended to BD everyday from end of her period right up to ovulation, to increase chances. He also mentioned that semen volume may drop, but sperm morphology is generally better if the male ejaculates frequently.
However, I feel that I have not fully recovered after each time. Sex is most intense if I abstine for 5 days or more. Erections are harder too.
Now I have to masturbate and I insert my penis in just before ejaculation to allow my semen into the vagina.
I am in a dilemma. If I abstine, I may have good sex. But sperm quality may be affected. If we had sex everyday, it is tiring and not enjoyable.
What is your experience?
We went to a fertility forum recently and the doc recommended to BD everyday from end of her period right up to ovulation, to increase chances. He also mentioned that semen volume may drop, but sperm morphology is generally better if the male ejaculates frequently.
However, I feel that I have not fully recovered after each time. Sex is most intense if I abstine for 5 days or more. Erections are harder too.
Now I have to masturbate and I insert my penis in just before ejaculation to allow my semen into the vagina.
I am in a dilemma. If I abstine, I may have good sex. But sperm quality may be affected. If we had sex everyday, it is tiring and not enjoyable.
What is your experience?