Hi Welcome all to join this discussion. After all that's my purpose to start this thread.
After reading, hearing and experience thru it myself, I could almost concluded that INDUCE birth esp for 1st time delivery is a BIG MISTAKE if u wish for Virginal birth. Almost all cases that I heard of ended up emergency C-sections. Mainly the reason is that your cervix is not ready for dilation, so if you try to "force it open", it may not open and sad to tell, if u want your cervix to dilate, it need your baby to descend to push your cervix open. Chances is that your baby is not ready to be born therefore it has not engaged. So when these things are not present, even if you go for induce labour, your cervix will not open without the help of your BB. My personal advise is that dont go for induce labour unless it is necessary for the baby.
my 2nd attempt for VBAC also tell me that Gynae in SIN is very conservative, they will not risk having their patient womb rupture while trying for VBAC. Not just being concern for the mummy but also not to put their name at risk. Just imagine, if they have one patient womb rupture, they will lost their reputation in the industry. So at the very last min, they'll still tell u to go for emergency C-section. We could read multiple success story about foreigners delivering VBACs but doing it in SIN is almost impossible, esp the case if you had more than 1 c-section. Almost all that I read about success VBAC now is only after 1 c-section never read about anyone manage to did more than that...sigh...I only heard from one doula that Dr Paul Tseng manage to did it, but not sure how true is it...but like what Zin has mentioned, getting a gynae who is truely supportive of VBAC is important. Take note of some gynae who keep hinting u not to risk the chance of womb rupture altho they say u can try for VBAC...
Urbanzi5,
ya it has been said that if your 1 c-section is due to cervix unable to dilate, chances is that u have a "stuborn cervix" and delivery via natural is not possible for subsequent delivery cos u will not dilate well. The rate of dilation according to the reply from one of the gynae in some Q&A I read about indicated that it should be 1 cm per hour. Maybe that's why hospital only allow approx. 10 hours in delivery suite and will charge extra if u stay longer than that. But I do heard about a friend going thru 26 hours of delivery, so it also depends whether your gynae is supportive and patient enough to let u try that long. Most often than not, I think Gynae are quite impatient, if you cant get 10 cm dilated within 10 hours, then they will deem that you cant dilate well and will advise for c-section with the conclusion that mummy is tired and they dont want to let the bb go into distress after such long delivery...
Ya my first delivery is emergency C-section too due to unable to dilate after induce labour. Induce labour with almost same reason as u. Baby is estimated at 3.2kg (actual birth weight is 3.57kg) at 38 week gestation, baby suddenly dont move so gynae suggested induction since he is big enough and he dont want to risk me carry him till full gestation when he become too big for delivery and since BB dont move, we might as well get him out then he staying inside me. Being first delivery, has been at a lost when BB dont move so actively, heed his advise. Bad choice! I could understand the traumatise u went thru cos I feel the same way too when I am told to go for induce and also when I need to go for emergency C-section.
But for my 2nd delivery, had backup plan for unable to delivery naturally, so ask for epidural even if I can still endure the pain. This is to prepare for emergency c-section and to keep myself awake to welcome my 2nd BB. Mayb u want to prepare yourself for it. But do note of my last msg if u want your hubby in the delivery suite this time around.
sigh...I've experience 2 emergency C-sections. I 'm still hoping there're someone out there who can tell me that she has done VBACs in SIN. Then I might be hopeful to try for my 3rd one... but the chances is slim and gynae who support this is also rare...