maybe_baby
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I don't know if it's a wrong move to have this house. Our plan was to have our first child after moving into this house, but this house has actually affected our life.
First, it was the couple above us. They started playing mahjong for at least 5 days a week, and would only start after 12am until about 4, 5am. We tried to put up with it, but the screaming, shouting and others in every few minutes had badly affected our sleep. Not only that we had reduced the number of intimate session from weekly to monthly, the insufficient rest had got me into major depression too. We spoke to them for many times, but the selfish neighbour told us to blame it on how hdb built the flats. After putting up with this for 3 years, we finally decided to make a complain to hdb.
Perhaps they really needs to play mahjong everyday, they decided to sublet the house to their PRC tenants who used to rent the rooms from them, but our nightmare continue. I remember when we took the lift together, he purposely told his tenants, "you girls better don't make too much noise, Singaporeans like to complain over small matters". Obviously these girls didn't care about it.
The PRC tenants are no better than their landlord. They don't go to sleep before 4am, and their activities would only start after 11pm. We tried to bear with them for cooking at around 12am, although we live in the type of flat which the master bedroom is facing the kitchen window, but they would talk and laugh loudly, despite other neighbours have shouted them to lower their voice. After we went upstairs to talk to them, they would throw food down to our air-con compressor ledge (I had caught them red-handed), what worse is everyday we would be greeted by some rubbish at our doorstep. They would also start walking like an elephant after 12am and slam the door and gate hardly, so loud that my downstairs neighbour's grandchild would start crying.
We've put up with the landlord for 2 years, now the PRC for another 2 years, we decided to try conceiving no matter how they affect us, but we know it wouldn't be easy with the badly lack of sleep everyday. Anyone with such neighbours can share with me how you deal with these selfish people? Please and thanks.
*I believe it's useless telling them how they've affected the neighbours. They've shouted back to someone who told them to lower their volume, saying something like it's no big deal to be Singaporean.
First, it was the couple above us. They started playing mahjong for at least 5 days a week, and would only start after 12am until about 4, 5am. We tried to put up with it, but the screaming, shouting and others in every few minutes had badly affected our sleep. Not only that we had reduced the number of intimate session from weekly to monthly, the insufficient rest had got me into major depression too. We spoke to them for many times, but the selfish neighbour told us to blame it on how hdb built the flats. After putting up with this for 3 years, we finally decided to make a complain to hdb.
Perhaps they really needs to play mahjong everyday, they decided to sublet the house to their PRC tenants who used to rent the rooms from them, but our nightmare continue. I remember when we took the lift together, he purposely told his tenants, "you girls better don't make too much noise, Singaporeans like to complain over small matters". Obviously these girls didn't care about it.
The PRC tenants are no better than their landlord. They don't go to sleep before 4am, and their activities would only start after 11pm. We tried to bear with them for cooking at around 12am, although we live in the type of flat which the master bedroom is facing the kitchen window, but they would talk and laugh loudly, despite other neighbours have shouted them to lower their voice. After we went upstairs to talk to them, they would throw food down to our air-con compressor ledge (I had caught them red-handed), what worse is everyday we would be greeted by some rubbish at our doorstep. They would also start walking like an elephant after 12am and slam the door and gate hardly, so loud that my downstairs neighbour's grandchild would start crying.
We've put up with the landlord for 2 years, now the PRC for another 2 years, we decided to try conceiving no matter how they affect us, but we know it wouldn't be easy with the badly lack of sleep everyday. Anyone with such neighbours can share with me how you deal with these selfish people? Please and thanks.
*I believe it's useless telling them how they've affected the neighbours. They've shouted back to someone who told them to lower their volume, saying something like it's no big deal to be Singaporean.