Haha usually i will just ignore her and let her cry until she stop. Just two weeks ago she insisted that i carry her after i had already carried her for a long walk. She refused to walk.. even the security guard at the marina by the bay walk over to ask her what happen as he thought she was alone. I was standing abt 4 m away. She ask the guard to go away. Haha. Then i walk over to tell her im not going to carry her and we r not goin bk until she walk on her own. It took me 20min bfo she gave up. Last sat she throw her cup w ribena at home when i told her not to play w cup as its spilling off , i give her a cloth n insisted she mop it as nobody else will do it for her.
In short, i insist my point to her and will not give in to her. Sometimes she run away and slam door if i scold her or so. I will catch her bfo she run away and let her cry out until she stop. I tell her to calm down and wait till she stop crying then i explain to her.