PETITE,
i laugh when i read ur post, cos hb juz came back frm china and he bot a $40 cargo bag!!!
So sad i cant go hkg anymre cos me not 380. i jz did hkg/sfo and did so much shopping and EATING my fave beef brisket/tendon noodles. My parents cant indulge in the lao por bing anymre liao
i return to flying 1.5yrs alrdy..time flies. And yes, til now, i fly or meet with crew i knew b4 i quit, they all look so different..mre haggard and hair getting lesser. I guess im oso same, old liao. Do galley work bend up and down to load meal can get very 'chuan4'. Chk in hotel collapse in bed,no energy to go makan oso..
2day is my last day of leave. SOB! 2mr flt is 10days long! dun noe if can survive anot. Worse is my boy kena BALANITIS 2day. this am wake up say his bird bird pain, then i saw some blood in his pants, went n dig out his nite diapers and saw blood as well. whole am dun wan to pee and cry in pain. So i quickly rush him to A&E. Doc say his penis is INSIDE the foreskin and smhow the foreskin cant b pushed back normally so penis head got infected. Aiyoh!! i c his bird evday oso dun noe itz not 'normal'. Actually, i dun even noe how a 2.5yo boy's bird sup to look like. i c other boy's bird(frm a distance) look abt the same leh. hw wld i noe hw much the foreskin can or cannot be push back?? cos im told by PD last time not to force his foreskin back and let it 'detach' naturally. Any mummies with this experience?? Doc say gotta consider circumcision! But he's so young to put him thru this!
i c him scream in pain till he tremble and whole body perspire, keep calling 'mummy! mummy!' and i cant do anythg to help except hold and hug him. He was calling out to me cos he depended on me to help him, i was the only person he knew to turn to in times of pain and distress and yet i was so HELPLESS! Wah! my heart really very super pain and i cried and cried. I very trumatise and hated tat i had leave him during this time.
he was given antibiotics n painkiller and luckily was willing to pee by late pm. But he refuses to pee in toilet so 2day kept peeing in his pants, even when we brought him out. He say his bird not pain anymre tho he wun let me touch it while i wash him. I gotta gv him next dose of med at 3am later. hopefully by 2mr he will feel ok.
I feel so much better after 'talking' abt tis. Only a mother will noe how another mother feels.
petite, if ur maid gv u problems, better chg. Dun be 2 soft hearted cos they will take advantage. I was like tat with my 1st maid. She left with my new ergo bb carrier and 2 teddy bear soft toy. i found out only when i moved hse tis march.
She oso like to cry evtime i chide her esp at nite in her rm, can hear her sobbing, next day ask her wat hap, she gv me the poor puppy look. She threw away my boy's food and told me he finish eating evthg within 10mins wen i was hving such a hard feeding him b4 i ask her to take over. She either thinks she's very smart or im very stupid. She will even go on hunger strike to show she's unhappy with me. Now i think back, i feel really silly to put up with her nonsense out of pity. in the end, my family were the ones who suffer.
My new maid since nov oso got diff problem. do thgs super slow, dun now on purpose or wat. ask her to be in bed by 10pm, she will dilly dally, bath very late, then next day cant wake up on time. my boy's toy under the table, i din want to say anythg, 2 days later still there. shows tat she NEVER sweep under the table!
But then i din want to b so bitchy cos im afraid she will mistreat my son when im not ard.
how's life with 2 kids? m thinking abt 2nd 1 leh..b4 my factory goes on strike.