angelbaby924
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Y end of the road?
any 35 and above trying for their first?
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Y end of the road?
lemon tart
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cos keep trying and trying still no BFP. month after month fail. sigh..I see no end to this ttc journey.
angelbaby924
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I think we should really stop trying....u know many pple tells us that, when they stop, it happens
angelbaby924
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I have tried clomid, hcg and done hsg, still nothing and my age is catching up, so I guess if doc gives me approval, I will go straight to ivf. But because I have to be careful on all medications so really will have to depend if my doc allows. He wrote me a referral letter so let's see how when I see them mid June.
oceandeep78
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Sigh. My colleague quite insensitive. Blatantly stared.at my tummy. Really makes me feel lousy
angelbaby924
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What did u do that he/she stares at your tummy?
oceandeep78
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Don't think I did anything. Guess she's trying to detect first sign of pregnancy but also because of my age that she knows I don't have time to play with.
angelbaby924
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Ignorant pple, just ignore them !!! Stare at hers back LOL
lemon tart
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some people are just ignorant and irritating. if they only knew what we go through. after this ttc journey I tell myself every child who makes it into this world is a champion and even though to us they may seem weird at times, they are winners in their own way.
angelbaby924
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Thanks. I am seeing my doc this fri so will ask him about it. Every medication any other doc gives me, I will have to get his approval
baby_sparkles
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yeah to be really safe and sure.
this ttc is very depressing but dun give up ok. im still trying very hard and truly believe my miracle bb will come very soon.
meanwhile can read my blog at missybbjourney.blogspot.sg when u have nothing to do.
havent updated since my last BFN though
this ttc is very depressing but dun give up ok. im still trying very hard and truly believe my miracle bb will come very soon.
meanwhile can read my blog at missybbjourney.blogspot.sg when u have nothing to do.
havent updated since my last BFN though
angelbaby924
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Thanks. Just nice I am feeling bored in the office again. Btw thanks for encouraging, actually I am totally cool about it, when I knew of my condition, I never tot I would survived it, and I never tot of wanting a kid then. But somehow I found my faith from church and things changed, I got a new life and to begin with, I am a very positive person. But to me, nothing is dead end for me, even if ivf fails, I have already planned for adoption. Both my DH and I have been talking about this since I know of my condition 10 years ago even when we were not married and we are totally fine with it. But I still believe I will have 1 of our own and maybe the 2nd one we will really adopt. So our spirits are high up but it's great to know pple in here to encourage one another
baby_sparkles
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yup thats good. my hub refuses to adopt.. so we'll see...
angelbaby924
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Btw I was reading your blog and u mentioned something about the project in May, an official opening or something. U r in events?
angelbaby924
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Heehee, I'm a fast worker. I'm in events so I am v sensitive LOL
your_attorney
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Just ignore such ppl. When I wear something baggy, some female colleagues oso use their eyes to do "inspection" from top to bottom.
I have grown to tell myself that this is my life, they are only colleagues (ppl who cm n go in my life). Ignore ignore ignore.
Having bb is our biz, none of their biz.
angelbaby924
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Yeah, that's y I chose to do BD instead of running the events
baby_sparkles
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Oh I misread bd as in our BD term 
oceandeep78
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Baby sparkles, jiayou jiayou! How long do you intend to tiao your body before trying again?
oceandeep78
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That's so true Lemon Tart! We can never take for granted the birth of a child.
oceandeep78
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Yes, I must be mentally strong. Endure and Ignore...I wish life can be kinder to me and let me BFP next month!!
ecym
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hi angel dont lose hope yet. Dr Yu from SGH has mentioned before they have seen successful pregnancy cases for transplanted patients. May I know which hospital did you do your transplant? I feel it will be better if you could go back to the same hospital so that the doctors can work together with you.
angelbaby924
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Hi, thanks for the encouragement. I did my op in SGH which is y I din even consider any other hospitals even tho I can afford it. And I opt for subsidized as I worried I may have to go thru more than normal patient. And I played a little cheat as I know mine will be complicated, they may assign an experienced doc as that was what my coordinators when I did my op, as my case is of high risk, even I pay subsidized they treat me as privatized
I have also heard my docs telling me that transplanted patients do get pregnant but he is also worried for me as my op was of a different blood group, which is rare in Singapore.
But nonetheless I m still full of faith, while waiting for ivf, I am still trying naturally.
baby_sparkles
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yup dont give up, and continue to try naturally.
ecym
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May I ask who is your renal dr? Dr chan or Dr kee?
angelbaby924
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It's dr kee. How do u know so much? Just curious
ecym
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My hubby is a post kidney transplant patient since 2005. His donor is his mum... I also read a lot about donor/recipient blood group non-compatible issues cuz I am prepared to donate to my dh in the event his mum one starts deteriorating....we also went with SGH CARE for IVF treatment for two rounds but we conceived our first born naturally in year 2010... wanted a sibling for her...
angelbaby924
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Oh wow! But I think for male it's easier as they do not carry the baby in their womb. How has he been since the op?
ecym
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He is doing good... he takes care of his health very well (exercising, eat healthy food and take his medicine on time but he also on lots of health supplements)...he had one episode of rejection scare during the first 6 mths after his transplant, after which, he also had a episode of mild peunomia in year 2012 and shingles last year... not life threatening... must really take care of your health ya, angel...
angelbaby924
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I have been v stable all the way, even when I told dr kee I wanna try for a bb, he puts me on an older medication to see if I can adapt coz if I can't, I cannot try. And it's been fine. And I never really had my scare. But one thing is I have put on a lot of weight, at least 6kg.
As for my hb, only wish he could be healthier. He does jogs and cycling weekly but he is a heavy smoker. And the only thing that could stop him is probably a baby ....
papermoon
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Ahhhhh! please try contacting Mdm Valencia tan for healing for all ttc sisters!
One is somehow right to say it happens when one stop trying but no do homework how to happen? do homework, eat well, exercise, plus all sorts of treatments/medication plus Mdm tan healing, worth a try. even if you are going for iui/ivf, go for her healing.
When I first started seeing her, I told myself I cannot be skeptical. If i am then what for I waste money to see her. I seek her help cos I want to regulate my menses. I usually see red like every quarter and I also read that regular menses doesn't mean ovulation but irregular menses make it harder to detect ovulation date right? All kinds of mixed feelings and emotions but miraculously right after I seen her I see red for consecutive months! And Mdm tan recommended her yoga she said many students signed up will usually have positive outcome! Her yoga is cheap but her teaching is good! and I like that her class is small sized, only about 5 ladies. She won't hard sell to get your long term commitment, she will always advise to pay for four sessions cos according to her, students have happy news half way through the sessions and can't continue yoga plus there's no refund so she won't recommend long term commitment.
And for those nasty insensitive colleagues - ignore them! Stick to people whom you like and makes you happy! talk to us here.
I really hope sisters here have success stories and yes, mustn't lose hope. Together with your hubby, believe and believe and do homework, increase frequency hehe
One is somehow right to say it happens when one stop trying but no do homework how to happen? do homework, eat well, exercise, plus all sorts of treatments/medication plus Mdm tan healing, worth a try. even if you are going for iui/ivf, go for her healing.
When I first started seeing her, I told myself I cannot be skeptical. If i am then what for I waste money to see her. I seek her help cos I want to regulate my menses. I usually see red like every quarter and I also read that regular menses doesn't mean ovulation but irregular menses make it harder to detect ovulation date right? All kinds of mixed feelings and emotions but miraculously right after I seen her I see red for consecutive months! And Mdm tan recommended her yoga she said many students signed up will usually have positive outcome! Her yoga is cheap but her teaching is good! and I like that her class is small sized, only about 5 ladies. She won't hard sell to get your long term commitment, she will always advise to pay for four sessions cos according to her, students have happy news half way through the sessions and can't continue yoga plus there's no refund so she won't recommend long term commitment.
And for those nasty insensitive colleagues - ignore them! Stick to people whom you like and makes you happy! talk to us here.
I really hope sisters here have success stories and yes, mustn't lose hope. Together with your hubby, believe and believe and do homework, increase frequency hehe
oceandeep78
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Wow looks like I have to contact Mdm Tan.. Seems very convincing hehe.
papermoon
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actually she didn't specifically say it's fertility yoga but she is confident to say that what she taught will regulate hormones and our system somehow will be "obedient", for the better definitely.
And some people don't feel anything during healing and don't go back for subsequent healing cos of the lack of chemistry/connection and don't wanna waste money. Like I shared, I exhausted my resources aka hope and kiasee to try iui or ivf so she was my only hope. She instill a lot a lot of hopes every time I see her. at the same time I shared about the purchase of Julie Roberts good luck clover, it is the same objective behind. I see 100+ successful stories of women who tried ttc so despite budget issue, I purchased the clover!
feel free to ask me anything, don't be shy, sisters we are here to help and support each other!
And some people don't feel anything during healing and don't go back for subsequent healing cos of the lack of chemistry/connection and don't wanna waste money. Like I shared, I exhausted my resources aka hope and kiasee to try iui or ivf so she was my only hope. She instill a lot a lot of hopes every time I see her. at the same time I shared about the purchase of Julie Roberts good luck clover, it is the same objective behind. I see 100+ successful stories of women who tried ttc so despite budget issue, I purchased the clover!
feel free to ask me anything, don't be shy, sisters we are here to help and support each other!
angelbaby924
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Same here. I almost fell zzz
papermoon
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because the class is so small and conducted at Mdm tan's flat, you will fully focus and perform the moves! Put the yoga aside first, try the healing and see what Mdm tan and the tuina lady got to say about your condition/situation. Not all ttc who went to her had to go thru yoga to be success stories.
btw the yoga is affordable and in my personal experience, it's not that bad after all. Of cos if want to be able to fully maximize all the stretches got to practice at home ( =
btw the yoga is affordable and in my personal experience, it's not that bad after all. Of cos if want to be able to fully maximize all the stretches got to practice at home ( =
angelbaby924
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Sorry for my ignorance, how does yoga helps in fertility? I mean in general little sports do help, but what is with yoga? No offense ya, just curious
I was googling cldnt really find any Leh.. Don want those DIY at home one.. Although I know there's certain pose like baby pose, lotus, bridge etc they say help in widening hip ..
Looking for fertility massage as well.. Wonder if u all know anywhere in SG got specialise one
Looking for fertility massage as well.. Wonder if u all know anywhere in SG got specialise one
papermoon
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the class is held at Mdm tan's flat located near to the Waterloo st/ bras basah station. Four sessions is about $100 valid for a month and held every Tuesday or Friday 730pm to about 845-9pm. You can google yoga-inn.com though website not updated but at least you can have a better understanding of the services I've been sharing and also the testimonials.
oceandeep78
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Anneneo, jiayou jiayou! At least you can do fertility treatments. For me, I am allergic to the drugs so can only try naturally or do natural iui.
My work also getting stressful and really not helping my ttc.. Thinking I might try Mdm tan's yoga or healing. I am doing acupuncture in the meantime. Cheers.
My work also getting stressful and really not helping my ttc.. Thinking I might try Mdm tan's yoga or healing. I am doing acupuncture in the meantime. Cheers.
angelbaby924
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Hi, what r u allergic to? If u dun mind sharing?
Ur acupuncture at ?
oceandeep78
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Somehow I feel getting pregnant at 35 and 36 can be significantly different. Like the likelihood drops alot by 36 yo. I am having so much difficulties getting preggy that I am so afraid I won't be able to conceive.
oceandeep78
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At amk with dr zou.
oceandeep78
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I didn't really test to check what I am allergic to. Just that I had bad allergy rash when I started clomid, did the injections (gonal-f and cetrotide) and on utrogestan. Did all one after another so can't really tell.