angelbaby924
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I feel very sad these days. end of the road le.
Y end of the road?
I feel very sad these days. end of the road le.
cos keep trying and trying still no BFP. month after month fail. sigh..I see no end to this ttc journey.Y end of the road?
I think we should really stop trying....u know many pple tells us that, when they stop, it happenscos keep trying and trying still no BFP. month after month fail. sigh..I see no end to this ttc journey.
I have tried clomid, hcg and done hsg, still nothing and my age is catching up, so I guess if doc gives me approval, I will go straight to ivf. But because I have to be careful on all medications so really will have to depend if my doc allows. He wrote me a referral letter so let's see how when I see them mid June.Angel : I see then u gona embark on ivf ? Will there be rejection of stimulation med ? Whatever it is Muz have faith ok. At least u can tell urself u have tried
Lemon tart : cos I have pcos and chances of bfp naturally is so low the doc say less than 5%. That time I just started in ttc journey so didn't know much.
What did u do that he/she stares at your tummy?Sigh. My colleague quite insensitive. Blatantly stared.at my tummy. Really makes me feel lousy
Ignorant pple, just ignore them !!! Stare at hers back LOLDon't think I did anything. Guess she's trying to detect first sign of pregnancy but also because of my age that she knows I don't have time to play with.
Thanks. I am seeing my doc this fri so will ask him about it. Every medication any other doc gives me, I will have to get his approvalwe will all get there soon ok.. muz have faith and keep a positive mind!
angel: the med usually for IVF jab is puregon or gonal f, with ganirelix.... see if these clash with ur current med.
Thanks. Just nice I am feeling bored in the office again. Btw thanks for encouraging, actually I am totally cool about it, when I knew of my condition, I never tot I would survived it, and I never tot of wanting a kid then. But somehow I found my faith from church and things changed, I got a new life and to begin with, I am a very positive person. But to me, nothing is dead end for me, even if ivf fails, I have already planned for adoption. Both my DH and I have been talking about this since I know of my condition 10 years ago even when we were not married and we are totally fine with it. But I still believe I will have 1 of our own and maybe the 2nd one we will really adopt. So our spirits are high up but it's great to know pple in here to encourage one anotheryeah to be really safe and sure.
this ttc is very depressing but dun give up ok. im still trying very hard and truly believe my miracle bb will come very soon.
meanwhile can read my blog at missybbjourney.blogspot.sg when u have nothing to do.
havent updated since my last BFN though
Heehee, I'm a fast worker. I'm in events so I am v sensitive LOLwah u really read fast..
we had n official opening last year for my company's project. im in property.. so we engaged an events co. for this.
Just ignore such ppl. When I wear something baggy, some female colleagues oso use their eyes to do "inspection" from top to bottom.Don't think I did anything. Guess she's trying to detect first sign of pregnancy but also because of my age that she knows I don't have time to play with.
Yeah, that's y I chose to do BD instead of running the eventsI see !!!! Events require long hrs ah not good for us
yeah to be really safe and sure.
this ttc is very depressing but dun give up ok. im still trying very hard and truly believe my miracle bb will come very soon.
meanwhile can read my blog at missybbjourney.blogspot.sg when u have nothing to do.
havent updated since my last BFN though
some people are just ignorant and irritating. if they only knew what we go through. after this ttc journey I tell myself every child who makes it into this world is a champion and even though to us they may seem weird at times, they are winners in their own way.
Just ignore such ppl. When I wear something baggy, some female colleagues oso use their eyes to do "inspection" from top to bottom.
I have grown to tell myself that this is my life, they are only colleagues (ppl who cm n go in my life). Ignore ignore ignore.
Having bb is our biz, none of their biz.
hi angel dont lose hope yet. Dr Yu from SGH has mentioned before they have seen successful pregnancy cases for transplanted patients. May I know which hospital did you do your transplant? I feel it will be better if you could go back to the same hospital so that the doctors can work together with you.Sure. My DH donated his kidney to me as 2 yrs ago my kidneys failed. So I am on steroids and anti rejection drugs and furthermore we are of different blood group, so the steroids are more. So I have to be very careful on what I eat especially fruits and medicine like painkillers and anti biotics
Hi, thanks for the encouragement. I did my op in SGH which is y I din even consider any other hospitals even tho I can afford it. And I opt for subsidized as I worried I may have to go thru more than normal patient. And I played a little cheat as I know mine will be complicated, they may assign an experienced doc as that was what my coordinators when I did my op, as my case is of high risk, even I pay subsidized they treat me as privatizedhi angel dont lose hope yet. Dr Yu from SGH has mentioned before they have seen successful pregnancy cases for transplanted patients. May I know which hospital did you do your transplant? I feel it will be better if you could go back to the same hospital so that the doctors can work together with you.
Hi, thanks for the encouragement. I did my op in SGH which is y I din even consider any other hospitals even tho I can afford it. And I opt for subsidized as I worried I may have to go thru more than normal patient. And I played a little cheat as I know mine will be complicated, they may assign an experienced doc as that was what my coordinators when I did my op, as my case is of high risk, even I pay subsidized they treat me as privatized
I have also heard my docs telling me that transplanted patients do get pregnant but he is also worried for me as my op was of a different blood group, which is rare in Singapore.
But nonetheless I m still full of faith, while waiting for ivf, I am still trying naturally.
It's dr kee. How do u know so much? Just curiousMay I ask who is your renal dr? Dr chan or Dr kee?
My hubby is a post kidney transplant patient since 2005. His donor is his mum... I also read a lot about donor/recipient blood group non-compatible issues cuz I am prepared to donate to my dh in the event his mum one starts deteriorating....we also went with SGH CARE for IVF treatment for two rounds but we conceived our first born naturally in year 2010... wanted a sibling for her...It's dr kee. How do u know so much? Just curious
Oh wow! But I think for male it's easier as they do not carry the baby in their womb. How has he been since the op?My hubby is a post kidney transplant patient since 2005. His donor is his mum... I also read a lot about donor/recipient blood group non-compatible issues cuz I am prepared to donate to my dh in the event his mum one starts deteriorating....we also went with SGH CARE for IVF treatment for two rounds but we conceived our first born naturally in year 2010... wanted a sibling for her...
Oh wow! But I think for male it's easier as they do not carry the baby in their womb. How has he been since the op?
I have been v stable all the way, even when I told dr kee I wanna try for a bb, he puts me on an older medication to see if I can adapt coz if I can't, I cannot try. And it's been fine. And I never really had my scare. But one thing is I have put on a lot of weight, at least 6kg.He is doing good... he takes care of his health very well (exercising, eat healthy food and take his medicine on time but he also on lots of health supplements)...he had one episode of rejection scare during the first 6 mths after his transplant, after which, he also had a episode of mild peunomia in year 2012 and shingles last year... not life threatening... must really take care of your health ya, angel...
Same here. I almost fell zzzhaha I signed up for four sessions. Prior to that I was doing Muay Thai once a week and yes I dislike yoga lor cos too slow for me haha
Sorry for my ignorance, how does yoga helps in fertility? I mean in general little sports do help, but what is with yoga? No offense ya, just curiousbecause the class is so small and conducted at Mdm tan's flat, you will fully focus and perform the moves! Put the yoga aside first, try the healing and see what Mdm tan and the tuina lady got to say about your condition/situation. Not all ttc who went to her had to go thru yoga to be success stories.
btw the yoga is affordable and in my personal experience, it's not that bad after all. Of cos if want to be able to fully maximize all the stretches got to practice at home ( =
Hi, what r u allergic to? If u dun mind sharing?Anneneo, jiayou jiayou! At least you can do fertility treatments. For me, I am allergic to the drugs so can only try naturally or do natural iui.
My work also getting stressful and really not helping my ttc.. Thinking I might try Mdm tan's yoga or healing. I am doing acupuncture in the meantime. Cheers.
Anneneo, jiayou jiayou! At least you can do fertility treatments. For me, I am allergic to the drugs so can only try naturally or do natural iui.
My work also getting stressful and really not helping my ttc.. Thinking I might try Mdm tan's yoga or healing. I am doing acupuncture in the meantime. Cheers.
At amk with dr zou.Ur acupuncture at ?
I didn't really test to check what I am allergic to. Just that I had bad allergy rash when I started clomid, did the injections (gonal-f and cetrotide) and on utrogestan. Did all one after another so can't really tell.Hi, what r u allergic to? If u dun mind sharing?