Advise Needed: How to get pregnancy?
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hihi ,
I heard fr my friends who are pregnant or had kids said should try on the 5th day ur mense ends, or when ur cervical mercus is alot / clear as egg-white. So roughly its abt the 15th to 17th day ur mense comes.
During the "peak" days.. then success rate is higher..
FYI: I am trying to conceive too.. hehe
I heard fr my friends who are pregnant or had kids said should try on the 5th day ur mense ends, or when ur cervical mercus is alot / clear as egg-white. So roughly its abt the 15th to 17th day ur mense comes.
During the "peak" days.. then success rate is higher..
FYI: I am trying to conceive too.. hehe
Hi piggy,
I think the proper way of calculating O date is predicting ur next mens, then minus 14 days. E.g. if ur cycle is 27 days, then minus 14 days for ur expected mens date, meaning day 13.
How long have u been trying? It is unlikely that the gynea will ask u to chk if u r ovulating if u hv been ttc for less than 1 year. The ovulation test basically is doing a blood test on certain days of ur cycle.
HTH
I think the proper way of calculating O date is predicting ur next mens, then minus 14 days. E.g. if ur cycle is 27 days, then minus 14 days for ur expected mens date, meaning day 13.
How long have u been trying? It is unlikely that the gynea will ask u to chk if u r ovulating if u hv been ttc for less than 1 year. The ovulation test basically is doing a blood test on certain days of ur cycle.
HTH
I've been ttc too....have been 6 mths and finally missed my period this time..but havent tested. No symptoms yet ... keep my fingers crossed
Anyway just wanna share this book if you are trying to conceive - "The Billings Method" (got it frm the library) - or visit the website http://www.woomb.org/bom/index.html
Anyway just wanna share this book if you are trying to conceive - "The Billings Method" (got it frm the library) - or visit the website http://www.woomb.org/bom/index.html
Hi Piggy,
Im now coming 5 months and Im having a baby girl. I don't consider myself as lucky but it is indeed a blessing to have someone who have fate with me. For those who is having a little difficulty trying, you will eventually 'meet' someone (baby) who want to stick with you. Goodluck to all..!!
Im now coming 5 months and Im having a baby girl. I don't consider myself as lucky but it is indeed a blessing to have someone who have fate with me. For those who is having a little difficulty trying, you will eventually 'meet' someone (baby) who want to stick with you. Goodluck to all..!!
Hi
I am new here , actually we has been trying for nearly a yr , still not good new . If my mense delay a few day , we though i might be preg. Maybe i am too stress over . My hubby love BB alot and i hope to have one for him, some more in my office there are more than three colleague Pregnant . Now i am trying to de-stress myself .Maybe it will be easy to get ones soon... WE REAllY HOPING.
One of my ex colleague advise me to visit the chinese doctor maybe it will help. Is it true?
I am new here , actually we has been trying for nearly a yr , still not good new . If my mense delay a few day , we though i might be preg. Maybe i am too stress over . My hubby love BB alot and i hope to have one for him, some more in my office there are more than three colleague Pregnant . Now i am trying to de-stress myself .Maybe it will be easy to get ones soon... WE REAllY HOPING.
One of my ex colleague advise me to visit the chinese doctor maybe it will help. Is it true?
Hi Chew,
I have got friends visited chinese doctors as well as gynae. Can gv it a try! But have the 2 of visited any gynae yet? One of my colleagues also cannot conceive and tried for many mths, she and her hubby went to see a gynae and was told that her 'eggs' were sleeping. Thats y she miss her menses so many times. Go see a doctor n you will know more from him. gd luck
I have got friends visited chinese doctors as well as gynae. Can gv it a try! But have the 2 of visited any gynae yet? One of my colleagues also cannot conceive and tried for many mths, she and her hubby went to see a gynae and was told that her 'eggs' were sleeping. Thats y she miss her menses so many times. Go see a doctor n you will know more from him. gd luck
Hi,
just to share my stories here..I have been trying for a 2nd baby for more than 1 year plus after my 1st but to no avail..my period had always been irregular after my 1st and sometimes it doesnt come for months..went gynae prescribe medicine to ovulate for many many months and did scans wasted so much money also no use..then I went to this chinese physician who is famous for seeing this kind of problem..just 2 visits n I pregnant n recently gave birth..
I recommended a mother of my daughters classmate who wanted a no.2 also and shes also pregnant now after seeing him..
Hmm..those who wanna give it a try..do pm me..
Ps: I dun gain anything from doing this..
just to share my stories here..I have been trying for a 2nd baby for more than 1 year plus after my 1st but to no avail..my period had always been irregular after my 1st and sometimes it doesnt come for months..went gynae prescribe medicine to ovulate for many many months and did scans wasted so much money also no use..then I went to this chinese physician who is famous for seeing this kind of problem..just 2 visits n I pregnant n recently gave birth..
I recommended a mother of my daughters classmate who wanted a no.2 also and shes also pregnant now after seeing him..
Hmm..those who wanna give it a try..do pm me..
Ps: I dun gain anything from doing this..
jazz_me_lah
Member
Hi Hi,
I very irregular & even took pill plus scanning but not working...i need solution...
Can email to me at [email protected]
Thank you so much.
I very irregular & even took pill plus scanning but not working...i need solution...
Can email to me at [email protected]
Thank you so much.
may_chan69
Member
princess_sherry
New Member
minzz, where's the TCM u went?
babycomecome
Well-Known Member
Hi, I am oso TTC but was so disappointed when tested negative yesterday. Have to try harder next time ba.
Hi Sianzz, can you email me the contact for the Chinese Physician. My email is [email protected] Thanks.
memorablechocolate
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Hi ladies, I just found out that I'm 3weeks pregnant after trying to hv bb for 2-3months... I uses Basal Body Temperature (BBT). This technique is also good if you have irregular menses.
The homework is to get three things.
1. First body temperature b4 u get out of bed, make sure same timing every time u take
2. Check your cervix fluid, if it is like egg white, go hv sex.
3. Cervix position and softness. Whether it is high up or soft or opening. (Low, easily reach n hard n close, it means is not fertile)(High up and hard to reach, soft and open, it means you are likely to ovulate -egg coming and very fertile). This require you to insert your finger into ur V to check everytime you shower, rem to wash ur hands n trim those nails.
Go buy a theramometer with 2 decimal points so more accurate. Next, come out with a chart to mark your daily temperature.
1st day of your cycle is the day your first day of menses. There are 3 phases to your normal cycle, Pre-Fertile phase, Fertile phase (where your temperature will b higher then normal), Luteal Phase where your egg will incupad and implant to your womb.
Here is an example of my chart this cycle:
http://www.tcoyf.com/media/p/1362903.aspx
Try to have sex during the time where you ovulate, this is where you will see a jump in your basal temperature and it comes with egg white discharge. Is time to listen to your body and u will learn so much more.
If your menses is coming that day, normally your temperature will fall back down to your begining temp, that is when u need to prepare to wear ur pad that day. Hehe.
If you are pregnant, your temperature will rise all the way... this will be what you are looking for. I did my pregnancy test on 11dpo n it was negative but did it again on 18dpo and I'm pregnant.
Hoep this help. =)
The homework is to get three things.
1. First body temperature b4 u get out of bed, make sure same timing every time u take
2. Check your cervix fluid, if it is like egg white, go hv sex.
3. Cervix position and softness. Whether it is high up or soft or opening. (Low, easily reach n hard n close, it means is not fertile)(High up and hard to reach, soft and open, it means you are likely to ovulate -egg coming and very fertile). This require you to insert your finger into ur V to check everytime you shower, rem to wash ur hands n trim those nails.
Go buy a theramometer with 2 decimal points so more accurate. Next, come out with a chart to mark your daily temperature.
1st day of your cycle is the day your first day of menses. There are 3 phases to your normal cycle, Pre-Fertile phase, Fertile phase (where your temperature will b higher then normal), Luteal Phase where your egg will incupad and implant to your womb.
Here is an example of my chart this cycle:
http://www.tcoyf.com/media/p/1362903.aspx
Try to have sex during the time where you ovulate, this is where you will see a jump in your basal temperature and it comes with egg white discharge. Is time to listen to your body and u will learn so much more.
If your menses is coming that day, normally your temperature will fall back down to your begining temp, that is when u need to prepare to wear ur pad that day. Hehe.
If you are pregnant, your temperature will rise all the way... this will be what you are looking for. I did my pregnancy test on 11dpo n it was negative but did it again on 18dpo and I'm pregnant.
Hoep this help. =)
my friend reconmend me this:-
"tummy N the lower part need to be massage first for sometimes, then only can have s** , after that, need to do the same steps again for sometimes, massage by auntie" - looks like abit strange to us this traditional method"
"have to be done during fertile period days N 2nd massage right after we have s** by auntie"
if you are me, will you try it or not ?
please advice ?
"tummy N the lower part need to be massage first for sometimes, then only can have s** , after that, need to do the same steps again for sometimes, massage by auntie" - looks like abit strange to us this traditional method"
"have to be done during fertile period days N 2nd massage right after we have s** by auntie"
if you are me, will you try it or not ?
please advice ?
You can get pregnant at any time of your cycle!
However most people (not all) ovulate around the middle of their cycle (around day 14) but then there is such a thing as spontaneous ovulation, which means any women occassionally will ovulate at any point of her cycle (even whilst she's bleeding) and it has been known for a women to ovulate twice in one month (although thats not common).
However most people (not all) ovulate around the middle of their cycle (around day 14) but then there is such a thing as spontaneous ovulation, which means any women occassionally will ovulate at any point of her cycle (even whilst she's bleeding) and it has been known for a women to ovulate twice in one month (although thats not common).