hi
just wanna share, my son #1 was in CC b4 i give birth 2 my #2, intend 2 send him there so that my mum can care 4 #2...
but since i hve given birth 2 #2, after attending CC for 2 mth plus, #1 been sick non-stop, every wk he's sick & on medication 4 different sickness...
end up i decided 2 withdraw my #1 frm CC, aware tat kids attending CC tend 2 get sick but then when when i return 2 work, if my #1 kept on getting sick, every wk, my mum cannot attend to 2 kids, especially when one is sick & while #1 is sick he can't attend CC, & i can't b taking leave every wk/day..so make the decision 2 withdraw him till he's older/stronger...actually i never tot tat kids will get sick every wk when attend CC, if occassionally i'm still okie, can apply leave...& my #1 sickness, r those tat nds long period of recovery, like diarrhoea for 2 wks, vomit for a wk plus, HMFD for a wk...w these he nds 2 b at hm, can't attend CC....
quite unexpected turn of plan...end up i hve 2 search 4 alternate plans..which is nt beri ideal but hve 2 stick 2 it for the time being till my #1 is older...
maid was one option but we try nt 2 go for it unless no choice...so current plan is my mum & MIL will each take care of one kid...my MIL still hve 2 take care of my BIL's gal which is 5 mths old now...hope my MIL can cope...