Facing a dilemma now. Have been offered an attractive position at a bank with the basic pay more than what I'm getting now (in sales) That's not including the commissions yet. However, it will leave me w very little time for my 1 yr old. Unlike now, I could decide my working hours. Even though I've been slacking bcos I just love spending time w him and hv been spending v little time at work, and thus my income has decreased drastically. On one hand I'm keen on the challenges n the money that will come with the new job. But on the other hand, I'm v afraid of the level of stress and pace of the new job, plus the long working hours. Any mummies can advise or share your experience as a full time working mother? How do u cope? Any guilt for not being there for your young child during his early years?