shiny_star
New Member
Hi mummies,
I am a single mother with a son coming 5 years old this year. I joined the forum since 2006. For past few years I had being bringing up my son alone together with family support. I was not married as previous ex lied to me for 7 years.
I knew a nice guy 1.5 years back. He get along with my son and very nice to my family. I went to his house around 3 times and his parents did not say much about us. I even bring my son along. I was so naive thought they accept us but it was not. I even occasionally buy food for him to pass to them and so happy they don't mind my status.
I was wrong until the new year eve. I was so happy that I can finally bring my son to eat reunion dinner with them. My son even knew we are going and I teach him to greet them. My parents and friends are also happy for me. But when we were about to reach his place, he told me that we just go to his house a while. I was surprised and asked him the reason. He said the parents were not ready yet, earlier on they called him and nagged at him. I broke into tears immediately and my son was with us in the car. He knew what's happening but he kept silent.
I was very upset and don't even wish to go his house and face them. I felt unwelcome. I told him that I will go to my grandma place at cck to have reunion dinner with family and relatives. His dad called him and hurried him back. I took my son with me alone and took bus to ang mo kio then waited so long for a cab to cck.I told him to go back and I can go back myself. Along the way, my son asked me why did not go to his house. I was so hurt and cried along the way. Yet the parents of his are enjoying their reunion. How can they hurt me when they should not say ok to come their house when they don't feel happy about it.
I am also human and have feeling. I am very upset and can't bring myself to see them. I even went to buy abalone for them but till now it's still in his car. My bf say he will talk to them into accepting me and say they are elderly must give them time. I understand but they should not have done this to me at the first place. My parents also surprised I did not go.
What a upset eve.
I am a single mother with a son coming 5 years old this year. I joined the forum since 2006. For past few years I had being bringing up my son alone together with family support. I was not married as previous ex lied to me for 7 years.
I knew a nice guy 1.5 years back. He get along with my son and very nice to my family. I went to his house around 3 times and his parents did not say much about us. I even bring my son along. I was so naive thought they accept us but it was not. I even occasionally buy food for him to pass to them and so happy they don't mind my status.
I was wrong until the new year eve. I was so happy that I can finally bring my son to eat reunion dinner with them. My son even knew we are going and I teach him to greet them. My parents and friends are also happy for me. But when we were about to reach his place, he told me that we just go to his house a while. I was surprised and asked him the reason. He said the parents were not ready yet, earlier on they called him and nagged at him. I broke into tears immediately and my son was with us in the car. He knew what's happening but he kept silent.
I was very upset and don't even wish to go his house and face them. I felt unwelcome. I told him that I will go to my grandma place at cck to have reunion dinner with family and relatives. His dad called him and hurried him back. I took my son with me alone and took bus to ang mo kio then waited so long for a cab to cck.I told him to go back and I can go back myself. Along the way, my son asked me why did not go to his house. I was so hurt and cried along the way. Yet the parents of his are enjoying their reunion. How can they hurt me when they should not say ok to come their house when they don't feel happy about it.
I am also human and have feeling. I am very upset and can't bring myself to see them. I even went to buy abalone for them but till now it's still in his car. My bf say he will talk to them into accepting me and say they are elderly must give them time. I understand but they should not have done this to me at the first place. My parents also surprised I did not go.
What a upset eve.
