Dear mummies,
Can someone please share with me your experience on how to handle this? Did anyone succeed in waiting and enduring the husband misdoings?
Cut the story short..
I have 2 kids aged 6 and 3. Together for 12yrs until 2 yrs ago, he starts straying. 2 yrs of guessing game all comes to a conclusion this yr that I was right with all my suspicious.
I gave him many chances despite catching all evidence and even knowing he went overseas with her.
When I first found out the evidence, he seems sad..that he wants to salvage the marriage and I promise to keep the evidence from that woman husband and his company colleague.
What really pissed me was I found out he still goes out with her and lied about his OT. So I broadcast the evidence to his mother and sister..and even his boss since they r colleagues.
He became very angry and now he wants a divorce.
Initially I wanted too. But my son cried as he wants the old daddy that used to love him. I went to tell that man to give the marriage a chance.
He actually replied me sms...U crazy woman, get out of my life! I have no more feelings for you. Can you please free me if you love me? I cannot believed that U wanna to imprison my body. Even u keep my body, my soul and heart is gone!
I asked him to sent the lawyer letter then and he said he got no time. I dunno what to do now...
Carry on waiting or just use my cash to proceed.
I am not working now..so my cash is limited and this man dun give allowance.
Can someone please share with me your experience on how to handle this? Did anyone succeed in waiting and enduring the husband misdoings?
Cut the story short..
I have 2 kids aged 6 and 3. Together for 12yrs until 2 yrs ago, he starts straying. 2 yrs of guessing game all comes to a conclusion this yr that I was right with all my suspicious.
I gave him many chances despite catching all evidence and even knowing he went overseas with her.
When I first found out the evidence, he seems sad..that he wants to salvage the marriage and I promise to keep the evidence from that woman husband and his company colleague.
What really pissed me was I found out he still goes out with her and lied about his OT. So I broadcast the evidence to his mother and sister..and even his boss since they r colleagues.
He became very angry and now he wants a divorce.
Initially I wanted too. But my son cried as he wants the old daddy that used to love him. I went to tell that man to give the marriage a chance.
He actually replied me sms...U crazy woman, get out of my life! I have no more feelings for you. Can you please free me if you love me? I cannot believed that U wanna to imprison my body. Even u keep my body, my soul and heart is gone!
I asked him to sent the lawyer letter then and he said he got no time. I dunno what to do now...
Carry on waiting or just use my cash to proceed.
I am not working now..so my cash is limited and this man dun give allowance.