Hi Sunshine, thanks for the encouragement, I will stay positive!
For CL, 1st one my mum helped and 2nd one she was just there for 2-3 days to teach my maid then my maid did everything else. I think this time I can remember what to cook and my maid will be able to do it as she did mini confinement for me during my last miscarriage so should be ok. I also didnt follow rules on bathing and washing....hehe
Blessed, yes this is also #3 for me, my doc and hubby sure insist I do C-sect due to my age so I think I will be early birth too.
Btil, don't worry about the company, if you are not working in hazardous surrounding, don't have to tell them so early, wait till your 1st Trimester over first also ok to tell them, unless very necessary, don't worry too much.