2Ks,
yah, sometimes i beat wif hand also have red marks, but luckily it go off very soon. immediately after i beat him, i see the red mark, my hard soften again, and i will tell him nicely not to do it again. then he will give a very pitiful look, nod his head and cry softly. but he will be naughty and do it again.... Terrible 3? will it stop there or will there by a 4?? can't imagine liao. i was telling my hb, 2 years down the road, will have another boy doing the same naughty things #1 is doing now....