I need to talk... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif] hb is in overseas, biz trip. For the past days, I'm alone with the kids, luckily mum came over for the night.
Today Cavin kanna HFMD, Christy is not with me, already send her to mum hse. So left me and cavin at home. I pump milk nobody drink. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif] mummy don't know know to warm up milk from fridge, so I don't want to trouble her further since she is full time taking care of Christy. Mummy just now say, you pump milk for what, Christy cannot drink. I say, I don't pump I will engorge. Then she reply me, then stop the milk production lah. Why she don't understand BM is good leh?
She went to TCM and get some herbs for cavin, then came back and sort of hinting me my BM is too heaty (sometimes I gave cavin my BM), that is also why cavin kanna HFMD, cos his little body is already heaty. Is it my BM that caused him heatiness that he got HFMD? His classmate was diagnosed on Wed so maybe he got it from cc already?
Just now fed Cavin medicine, he don't want to drink, I have no choice but to hold him down by by legs and he is screaming and shouting, struggling. Poor boy, kanna pin down by me. So heart pain... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif] While pumping in medicine into his mouth I cried. Why must I pin him down? Why he cannot drink the sweet medicine? I really hope he don't go to the childcare at such young age but mum can't handle already, if she needs to take care of 23mth cavin, 16mth niece, 1mth christy (when i go back to work 3mths later).
We thought of hiring a helper to help but my dad don't want stranger to be in his house. He told my sis, if there is a maid in his house, everyday he will return home late. (he meant what he says) Hai... why he cannot think for us? Since we don't want him to come back late late then we have to stop our plan to get helper.
Then my mum also worry that the helper is not good will cause her even more troubles than to help her out. Trouble again... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif] Get helper or not? Problem here and there! Cannot satisfied everyone leh!!!! On the other hand, my 16mth niece is a little torturer to my mum, she will scream and cry when things are not in her way, sometime i feel like giving her a tight slap on the face. Really buay tahan!!! She can cry, stop, then remember again then cry. Her crying is not those normal ones, she will scream and cry at the same time and once she start it can be very long time before she stop. When she stop is only a short while then she start crying and screaming again. Even you cane her, she still the same. Really don't know how to control her to stop. If she is a very good girl, I believe we don't need helper.
I thought of pumping milk and throw away since I am only fridge it not freezing them. Will the milk taste strange if is frozen???
hai... so troubled.... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif]