Little Tiger, remember you all not alone going thru all these (TBF/EBM/FM, insufficient sleep and rest, out of shape figure at the moment, etc, etc). All mummies in this thread are in this situation n we will all pull thru together ok?
Don't bottle up yr feelings, talk to your hubby. Think itz damn rude that your MIL keep touching your boobs. Ask your husband how would he feel if someone keep touching his penis. Try to put himself in your shoes too. Don't need to tolerate such rudeness.
Why MIL keep asking BB enuff milk onot? Wat's your TBF scedule like now? (such as how many hours interval before next feed)
Or if you EBM, how much is the quantity per session?
Agree with Mrs Heng, do things which would make U feel better. I always reward myself with things I like to eat and drink whenever I go out.
When I have my meals at TMC on 2nd day, I avoided confinement food (cos I know still got many days to eat dat stuffs, hate it) Ask my MIL is it ok to eat western food. she say I natural delivery this time round, can eat anything. Then when some days of the confinement, I sick of the food liao, I just ask my maid to cook spagetti, jap noodles. Also ask my vegetarian mother cook fried kway tiao (at least without seafood and cockles). Then at night I eat the confinement food.
When I go out for bb PD check and do birth cert, I told my MIL don't need to prepare my lunch, I eating out. Her immediate reaction is CANNOT eat outside food. My reply: TOT u say I can eat anything?
She then say a list such as dont eat seafood, those soup or gravy that use pork bone to make, etc, etc...... In my mind, I say to myself, double standard.
Anyway I still go ahead and eat fastfood and tiny sips of soft drinks (not the whole cup lah)
I still bring the longyan red date drink to quench my thirst when go out. Mummies, if you all think very sick to drink this drink, maybe u have cook it too sweet. Mine is very LESS SUGAR type, so still taste ok and can quench thirst.