sus: Pacifier leash can pin anywhere, whether on you, on baby, or even on the pram - as long as there is no danger or leash suffocating BB (for soft leash) or scratching BB (for the hard type). I do not give my kids pacifier, but I use the hat leash from Diaso for the hanky. We discovered it when we went Japan when #1 was 15mths, found it useful but couldn't find in Sg... was glad when Diaso came to Sg. ;-D
As for BFing, do what you feel is best for BB. If you can perserve, do so, however, if it is hurting so bad, personally, I'd choose to stop.
I stopped bfing when I was taking the antibiotic for the c-sect wound infection. Also, couldn't take all the pain & discomfort then... on top of it all, my ms was not much to boast of... so HB told me to stop & not stress myself too much.
I applaude all you gers for being able to breastfeed for so long, withstanding the pain of engorgment, discomfort & tireness...
Initially, it was hard for me, cos I felt horrible for not being able to bf like a 'normal' mum can, practically everyone I know bf their child longer than I could. But I've since come to terms with it... maybe bcos I dun bf, not stressed out by ms issues, I'm dun fall sick s easily. Thank God bb is ok with fm too. She has a healthy appetite & (touch wood) never falls sick... so I've been able to enjoy my ML so far, been taking the 2 younger kids shopping when #1 is in sch... going back to work tomorow.. boo hoo, but only for 2 days & another day next wk b4 I resume bal of ML.
You take care & rest well, then can enjoy time with bb...