Thank you all mummies for your advice, really appreciated. I shall go and look for a claypot to boil soup.
Ni my mil also told me not to give ashley rice as she doesn't think she can digest. Maybe all mils think alike.
Sperzz, your description of Delia is exactly how I will say about Ashley. She is s bully, will beat her brother, cry when she doesn't get her way. In short super irritating! I really can't stand her. Only my hb treats her like princess, dun want to scold or discipline. Even mil said the same. And she only like men, like papa and yeye.