hi mommies, sorry MIA. Been sick! my boy spread to me and now i got the flu..
wah.. so many posts....
thanks for all the advice on shoes and food!
JoviaGer, i have added you to my Facebook! i like using Facebook for my pics, so i think its good we can set up a group there
tho i dunno why but i can't add myself to the group.. dunno why.. and also, think there is a typo lah.. my babies DOB is 26 May 07, not 25 may..
Irin - me not blur lah on my babies DOB, its typo lah!
Blessedone - they really look alike!
playdates - i am ok on weekends if hubbies are invited! my hubby works overseas, and only comes back on weekends, so most weekends are precious for family, and for him to spend time with them.. but once in a while, i am ok! most times i bring them out on weekdays..
preference for helpers - i think this happens with most mommies, we all feel 'insecure' when our babies cling/get closer to the helper than us.. i have the same feelings too, and i am with them most of the time! but i also think its inevitable.. when i feel like that, i tell myself that its better for them to be close to the helper and let the helper like them than those helpers who treat it as jus a job! more worries on the latter if anything goes wrong! my maid dun sleep with the kids though.. they are in 1 room, 2 cots.. when they wake at nites, i handle half the nite, and my maid handles the other half. once reach morning, and my maid has done the floor cleaning and baby clothes washing, she takes over the kids, while i nap for another hour half (for my sanity sake
) so i think she also has feelings for the kids, and i still feel the pinch when my boy smiles or crawls to her, but i also think its inevitable..
CoCo - dun feel like you are the lousy mom jsu cos you can't train them! twins are different.. mine are 9 over months and they still wake me up 3 times a nite! it depends on the individual.. and moreover, its tough training twins esp if they share the same room.. cos one cries the other one wakes! most of the time i am exhausted too.. its jus everything altogether that is overwhelming. dun be too hard on yourself.. cos if you are, its even harder to cope..
Dawn - i put both the babies in 1 room, 2 cots in there and have a baby monitor.. i do the getting up every nite (they still wake about 3 times a nite each, on a good nite, twice) the earlier part of the nite, i pass to my maid to feed, anything after 3am, i do the feed.. but i still do the waking up and passing to her tho..
Dorayaki - sorry can't do the Respite Gathering.. going to church on friday and have to be a godma on sunday easter!
weiwei and dawn and 3inapod, your babies soooooo cute! its all worth it right?
3inapod, i also love your b&w pic! i really will look you up sometime for studios shots! when i can get my babies to sit still for pics!
janice, hi! haven't seen you back here sometime already! sorry haven't replied your email.. sigh.. been so busy and then sick.. reply you soon!
my dates:
05 Apr (Sat) - dorayaki/J&SMum/jovial/Irin / Mooch
06 Apr (Sun) - dorayaki/Irin / Mooch
12 Apr (Sat) - Irin
13 Apr (Sun) - Irin
19 Apr (Sat) - Irin / Mooch
20 Apr (Sun) - dorayaki/jovial/Irin / Mooch
26 Apr (Sat) - dorayaki / J&SMum/jovial/Irin / Mooch
27 Apr (Sun) - dorayaki/jovial/Irin / Mooch