Hi Starling,
I send my girl for playgroup near my in-law's place everyday and they help me look aft her till evening so that, like u, i can concentrate on the newborn.
I dun have a maid. Want very much to have one, so that i can really spend time with the kids. But thot since im staying home for a while, i'll do everything myself. Im looking for a part-time domestic helper who can come in once/twice a week to clean the house. Any lobang?