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    Should my friend have the baby?

    ICA has their own set of criteria in approving PR applications. And those criterias evolve over time. There are many such questions posted online, its not a " sure can get" type of approval. Hmm.. this thing abt "legal adoption of biological child" is really a Singapore Citizen issue based on...
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    Should my friend have the baby?

    Partner cant raise child with her.. and no mention of marriage.. i am guessing he is married. I am also guessing that he will also not include his name in the birth cert. The kid will then adopt the citizenship of the mom. Kid can get ltvp but getting PR is really a grey area. Raising a LTVP...
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    Advice needed - contemplating divorce

    I hv not come across anyone who regretted divorce. Its not abt who is right, who is wrong. Men and women are wired differently. If cant gel, means cant gel. People dont change.
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    Daily insulting from the husband

    Both of you are not fated to be together. He has brought up divorce. You shd start serious discussions. No point blame or find fault. Just not fated. So better to move on. Life is short.
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    Divorce fee

    Take back cpf plus accrued interest is the norm and required by CPF regulations. Usually 50-50 refers to nett sales proceeds after CPF and loans
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    Ground of Divorce- Contested

    Law has recently changed to allow no fault div. Do u really want to burn bridge with the father of your kids? https://www.channelnewsasia.com/commentary/no-fault-divorce-mutual-agreement-marriage-womens-charter-2338326
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    What should i do?

    To all those planning a div.... There is a big $$ difference between a contested and a uncontested divorce. There is also a difference between “wanting a divorce” and “agreeing to a divorce”. Life should be about seeking happiness. Getting into a bitter fight might win you the battle, but...
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    What should i do?

    You have totally misunderstood my point. If TS hubby has a EMA, and TS is asking/ gunning for a Div, very high chance he will not contest the div, and will even use the same lawyer as her. Contested div is a crazy process to go through. Both sides burn huge legal fees for nothing. $ that could...
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    Divorce

    This govt believes that div is bad for the nation, so the courts have to decide if a div is truly necessary based on a pre determined criteria. Unreasonable behaviour is often cited. A woman can claim the hubby fetish to dress in women clothes is unreasonable behavior. As long as hubby does not...
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    What should i do?

    TS, What do u really want? A div? U dont need a PI to get a div. Just upfront tell him it’s not working out. Chances are, he wont contest it. Sweet and simple uncontested div. U want him to love u? U think confronting him with a PI report will suddenly wake up him and be your pet? Chances are...
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    What should i do?

    If he is not contributing to household expenses, and u are a SAHM, where is the $$ for expenses coming from? Burning savings? Whose?
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    i don't feel that my wife love/ respect me

    Go on a short notice business trip for 3 nites and see her reaction during the 3 nites u are not around. From this experiment, we can tell the underlying issues.
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    My husband is getting worse

    Love yourself more. Marriage is not abt ownership or possession. Dont fall into this trap, especially with an unreasonable companion. Do what u would do if there was no SO ard.
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    Divorce because of mother in law

    Weird ppl are weird simply because they are stubborn. Normal ppl adapt n improve. Stubborn ppl never improve but just get more n more stubborn. Some ppl might say they will change for the better. But the reality is, a few months efforts is not going to eradicate decades of conditioning...
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    Estate Planning and Will Writing

    https://www.income.com.sg/value-added-services/referral-services/will-writing-services
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    Not divorcing but pretend to be in marriage?

    Realistically, there is no such thing as a "normal couple". The guy definition of normal is not normal to a lady. The lady definition of normal is not normal to a guy. We just have to focus on our own happiness, Not expect others to provide us the happiness.
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    Not divorcing but pretend to be in marriage?

    https://www.google.com.sg/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2009/oct/10/forgiveness-retaliation-revenge-dillner
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    CNY

    Why are u even giving angpao to them in the first place? Why do they hv the cheek to comment on the amount? Are u sure u want to be involved with such people for eternity? If they are magnamous, they can add value to your life. But this sounds like u are buying a problem.
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    Going crazy abt MIL issues

    Just thinking out aloud.. not implying anything.. A person upbringing is influenced a lot by the mentality of the parents. Especially abt the roles of husband and wife. It is wise to discuss fully with the other half.. wad is family life.. is wife boss, equal or wife is slave?
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    Going crazy abt MIL issues

    When it comes to money issue, helping such ppl financially will not garner any goodwill, they will tell u.. ying gai de. Thus.. really no value in being generous to such ppl

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