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    Husband visit prostitute and happy ending massage parlour

    Your children in Primary school? Is so depressing , the trust of 19 years has been broken. Now you should be in a confusing stage. There were be a reason which you still want to continue with him eg. Children or ...etc. even though he has hurt you deeply and has broken your trust. You have...
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    Can Celebrate CNY?

    After 3 months should be fine but you have to ask the person who invite to the house or meet up with you if they ‘pan tang’.... Some culture 1yr -3 yrs so it’s depend on individual and your family / dialects culture.
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    Need some Divorce advise

    I dunno good Lawyer. You try Google.You have to go for few Lawyers for short consultation and pricing. I think shld be free? Then u decide which one u feel comfortable with. Your husband has claim that you did nothing at home, leave everything to maid, did not do your duties as mother and...
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    Need some Divorce advise

    Good that he work for people so he can’t cheat on his income. Already file divorce... then better if u hire private lawyer to fight for your rights. Tell lawyer your situation, and if he earns 150k per month, asking for 20% @$30k of his income is not too much. Use his credit card to pay for...
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    Need some Divorce advise

    I’m not sure does it make a difference but I heard if go thru legal aid lawyer may need to meditate first and has to wait appointment date.... Where are you from? Btw his salary is $150k per year or per month? If $150k per month , you should ask min $30k from him. How’s your in-laws react? Did...
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    Need some Divorce advise

    Since he has high income, u hire private lawyer to fight maintenance - your expenses, rent and children care...etc. You can start searching for a lawyer who is able to help you.
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    Need some Divorce advise

    EricaAka: Do you have relatives to help you ? do you have a place to stay Your elder child girl or boy? Usually if children below 7 years old, court will give the children to mother’s care. But you have to prove your side that you have a stable place to stay and has a job. You can’t depend on...
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    Need some Divorce advise

    Erica, how old are you? and how old is he? 1) sole custody unless you can take care children by yourself. Your children still young. If you get sole custody , what if he doesn’t care to give you maintenance? Can you support 2 children by yourself? Tell him Share custody , if children live...
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    Husband filed for divorce

    ijnn :cool::po_O:p Margaret, I have a girlfriend her husband file for divorce, but she is able to ask for a sum of money thru his lawyer before she agreed to sign. She no need to hire her own lawyer, they have no children so it was a straight forward thing. The lawyer help both of them come...
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    Husband filed for divorce

    You are above 35 can has the flat under single scheme. Since he wants to divorce urgently (dun u feel something fishy?) Ask him to transfer the flat to you if not don’t sign the paper, let him wait 4 years. Normally if he agreed flat can be transfer but you have to return him back the cpf...
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    Husband filed for divorce

    Namimummy, how old are you , how Long have you married and how long have you both bought the Hdb flat?
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    Btw how is your friend autism son? Is he Mild , Moderate or Serious? Since he has diagnose under gov, he can seek help from PAP school. Some private childcare were ok with mild autism but school fees not cheap. If he has went to EIPIC center , has no violent, serious melt down, has a...
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    Unhappy SAHM

    Children talk without think, don’t be too serious with what they said. If you feel what they said have hurt you , you have to be firm and told them off. They should show respect to you no matter what. Some children follow dad bully mum. How come you husband said you have no contribution? What...
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    p-k ,You are 30 still young, why do you want to waste your time with him? You have to help yourself ,stop thinking if not will become depression. Leave him, ask your parent / relatives to help care the baby ,find a job and save up $, you can apply Hdb with your child in future. Or divorce , you...
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    negative wife

    Is not easy for 2 difference people to live together. The way you show your love may not be what she wants. And the way she show her love may not be what you want. Difference character, thinking, demand, selfish level, self- center...etc Many couples have been living unhappily and live...
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    negative wife

    How long have you date? Married because of BTO flat? Hmm... are you really happy? Living in stress Everyday, dunno when she will angry and scold you? Nothing you did was right? (Unless you did something wrong and has hurt her in the past so now you have to tolerate her.) Have you ask her what...
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    negative wife

    1) ask yourself are you able to tolerate and give in to her in next 5 ,10 ,20,30....years? 2) normally married 1-2 years will argue the most, because 2 difference persons living in a same roof and shares difference habits. So after 2-3 years marriage can last or ends depends who give in, who is...
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    negative wife

    How Long have u been married? Since married she has been like this or only recently?
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    Should I forgive my husband that cheats before and now wanting to get “happy ending” from masseur

    Do you really feel happy in the past 3 yrs? What you love him was a memory of your past, u were still living in your memory with him. In reality can u really forget and forgive him? He was disrespectful to you. If both of you still young and without children, I would suggest you to leave him...
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    negative wife

    What I can said were both of you were either difference character or maybe she has 心病 so she doesn’t want you to be near to her family and feel frustrated that you can’t understand her needs/ feel. Both of you how old? Any children? Normally if a woman does not want to get involve with the...

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