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No choice but we have to protect our own family =) Somemore he and his family not in good term (not talking at all). So it is best to live separately and have our own life and freedom.

Hi, my PIL has spent all their monies from the sales of their house. But after giving some pressure on them, they are agreed to purchase a 2 room flexi flat but only on certain location. As you know it is quite hard to get a 2 room flexi on popular location, so I hope the luck shine on them (or...

Hi Black Bunny, my pil are not until this extend yet. At least I know they take care my husband well when he was young. Just that I can't bare my mil is control freak, like to makes home so messy and always go visit singapore pool.. =(

Yes, we try to make my pil angry, and they finally "consider" to apply a 2 room flexi. "consider" only, not yet take action..

Hi, my husband is not the only child. He has a married brother and he is rather live with his mil instead of his own mum and their place has no room for my mil to stay. You are right, after married we should form our own family and own life outside of parents, however, not every parents/husband...

Anyway, the more I spoke to my husband, the more he felt that I am forcing him to make a bad decision, I think I will just have to live with current situation =(

oh well, they will insisted to shift together with us =x

It doesn't matter the house big or small, the reason of making me angry is they sold their own house and they have spent all the money from it and insisted to live with us, doesn't care whether we are happy or agree or not, they treated our house as their own house.

Hi Reddesk, Appreciate your advise, will be easier if I replied you in these way: Someone said earlier.. easier for you to move out of their house then for you to invite them out; especially it seemed like they are at the stage of “cannot go anywhere”. What do you mean they spend their money on...

Hi reddesk, my fil can't differentiate who is right or wrong, cos he is just listen to his wife =p

Hi reddesk, Last time they are still talking term but they betray our trust. Because they did not have enough money to pay their house loan and my husband still not income stable at that moment, so no choice they have to sell away their own house. We also didn't invite them, they are just...

Hi yf, thank you so much for the understanding, appreciate it. From what I know, they have made profit from their ex house and they have already spend all their money to "C" & "SP" :rolleyes:

Hi Stansy, we have suggested them to apply a bto themselves but they refused to do so. They are just telling us they want to stay with us no matter we are happy or not cos this is the tradition =( We can't just chase them out from house right? and ask them stay at rented place =(

Hi, I know the key person is me and my husband, but my pil refuse to listen our suggestion and insisted their way of thinking. We also don't wish to the extend that chase them out from our house because no matter what they are still my husband's parents and also they do not have own any house...

Useless after telling them not to do so, anyway I am here to express my anger, I know nothing can be done and resolve the issue.

My husband having some friend telling him to treasure his parents and treat them well, but they are not in our situation at all.

My parent in law are control freak also, our interior designer paint my living room wall in grey, then they suddenly go and paint to orange, saying grey inauspicious for house. =(

Hi Natelie, my husband not in talking term with my mil and he just doesn't wish to communicate with them and so my mil continue to take advantages on us. They are just thinking this is a tradition to stay together with son & daughter in law, even though we always show them black face, look...

I did suggest them to apply bto their own but they are just refuse too. Don’t understand why have this kind of pil keep taking their own children family for advantage

Hi, my parents in law are staying in our house. they didn’t have their own house to stay as they have already sold away their house. We didn’t invite them to stay also they are just thinking is normal is a tradition