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    My MIL insisted that staying one roof is tradition and not willing to tc of child

    Pat pat~ sounds tough.. from what you wrote, can tell you are very tolerant and sensible They just want to stay in the house with you all or are also stingy with their money? Since it’s impossible to not stay with then, possible to ask them to chip in and get a bigger unit so that there will be...
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    Emotional blackmail from husband and in-laws to conceive a child through egg donation

    Tell your hubby about this. Tell him to give you some time. Jiayou babe~ :)
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    Emotional blackmail from husband and in-laws to conceive a child through egg donation

    Maybe more importantly, you should ask yourself whether you think a child is necessary to make a family complete. Be truthful to yourself, without the anger you felt when being pressurised. If the answer is yes, then there won’t be any issue. It’s only a matter of time, as you will need some...
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    Should I get a divorce or cont wasting my life away?

    Just find it a pity if u just give up the relationship because of your fil. Usually a filial son is a good father too.. Maybe you should really sit down with your hubby, talk about the issue and see how you both can resolve it. Seems like the only way you all can work things out is to set a...
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    Should I get a divorce or cont wasting my life away?

    Sounds like your hb is a v filial son but at ur expenses... how about you and your hubby set a boundary at home. Give your fil some personal space to “dirty” — a room and a bathroom (consider giving him the master bedroom). Do you think that will work?
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    Should i consider divorce?

    I think you need to find a time (when both of you are calm) to talk to your wife. Maybe you can start from asking each other to write down each other’s strengths and weaknesses. Start from there to discuss issues. Do remember to take time to think through and write down one’s strengths and...
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    Should i consider divorce?

    As we only heard one side of the story, it’s quite difficult to see the entire picture. As a SAHM myself, I think sometimes need to see from ur wife’s POV too, so that u will better understand ur wife’s needs and can find ways to help her manage her emotions, which will in turn help your...
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    Baby is not drinking formula milk. Need urgent help...

    My bb was like that when he was 3-4months old. Hopefully ur wife still can continue to pump/latch while bb transits to fm. The first thing I did was to change the brand of fm. You may consider nan or enfamil. Next, try to feed ur bb in a quiet and dark environment. If still cannot, u may try...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    We can trust but never trust blindly. The reason why I asked you whether u know your husband’s friend/s is to see how much you understand your husband and sorry to say.. how easily he can hide things from you. Your husband sounds so unsure why he wanted to leave the marriage... how can that...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    “Staying overnight at friend’s hse” — do you know this friend?
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    September 2019 Mummies

    Hihi ladies, My edd is 18 sep. can add me into any available WA group too? :)

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