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Don't worry. We all been through it.. I'm not local too, I'm a Malaysian with spore PR, moved to spore because of him and settled down. My family is not with me in spore. But this doesn't stop me from leaving him after what he did to me. I tried giving him chances but he didn't appreciate any...

Sad to hear what happened. Counselling only works if both wish to reconcile and put in effort together.. If you are the only one that wants to hold on to the relationship, then couple/marriage counselling probably not helpful. What's your challenge being alone in Singapore?

Singapore marriage law is consider tighter than other country which have rules such as only allow to divorce after 3 years of marriage, HDB only can sell after 5 years, etc.. Having strong measures will discourage in certain extend but it will also cause the victim in a longer suffering...

I'm looking a cure journey for myself, not to fix the marriage anymore.. Because of covid-19, I been through that darkest period all by myself alone here.. After a year only I tell my family about what happened.. I'm not sure if I'm okay in person. So I'm wondering If I should see some...

Hi there, Anyone seeing any psychologist or counsellor for some sort of treatment or whatever to give you some guidances, helps through this painful journey?

Sigh.. That's why I'm hoping someone here would share a good contact that can really help. Do u come across anyone to recommend?

i dropped an email to 2 lawyers contact that i found online during this COVID-19 period, telling them my situation, no child custody, HDB still within 5 years, divorce reasoning as well. They just reply with a divorce process and checklist which can be found online. There isnt any advise or not...

Hi everyone, anyone hv contact of good lawyer that will help u through divorce (unreasonable behaviour)? Not just giving u the steps of divorce and expect u to do your own study online, understand my rights all by my own? Going thru this during this Covid-19 is miserable..

It's the same one. I'm very tired going through the same cycle again and again..

Found him deleting history. Obviously they are chatting that's why hv to delete record..

I guess the bomb is going to explode soon. I found out something again! Seriously, a leopard never Chnages its spot! How should I end it? Its going to be long dayyyyy..

I don't know if he still in contact or not.. I tried to remove the habit of checking his phone. In a way to build trust.. Like what Margaret said, when I confront, he admitted to whatever I find out and those I dont know, he will not tell.

Giving each other a last chance to work things our together. Monitoring if he still doing any hanky panky thing outside and also see if my heart, mind, soul can really stay in this marriage with him. We been together for like 15 years, really not easy to just give up like that. I hope he will...

If you can totally don't listen a single word from him, then ignore him and make your decision. The moment you gave him a chance to explain himself, you already give in and more likely you will give him the chance. I wish I can be tough and ignore him also...

He admitted on things that I asked, but he didn't say more beyond that. He have been treating me good these days, like really good as before. But unfortunately I just found out that they are still on touch. Why can a family guy, lovely husband, become such disgraceful? Hurting me again and...

I really having trust issue after all these incidents. I don't want to force and check every single things like credit card statement, bank account etc, make him like a prior, being monitor all time. But is he really sincere? People have been telling me to feel with my heart. But Im not...

Sorry to hear that.. Can you share more about your journey of curing?

Yes, indeed. Very hard to forget. And I actually can't visualize us having our baby and raising the baby together. I know I'm in love with this guy who is my first love, but sometime, those visual of him with her just flashback through my mind and affect my emotion for the rest of the day. But...

Hi, is anyone still here? Need some advise.. Sorry for the long story: Found out hb had an affair with a China massage lady(suspect she provide extra service to most of her customers) in July, they should be seeing each other since late May, where I'm trying to conceive. We have been dating...

Not giving up on ttc but considering to pause ivf for a while.. Felt like taken too much of medicine recently. Any advise on acupuncture or fertility massage?