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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    Sorry to hear what you going through. Stay strong and positive!
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    gambling husband

    Just curious, what’s the purpose of sharing the website here ? further to that, whether to play at MBS or online, perfectly your wish, you need not have to consult anyone.
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    Flirting msges

    Sharing my own experience. A customer (lady) that I know for many years, called me while I’m driving and I answered her call via car speakers. My wife (now ex) was in the car too. This customer started off with “it has been so long I never see you, really miss you”... the aftermath, I have a...
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    contemplating divorce.

    Not pertaining to the care and control as he didn’t contest. The contested area was the right amount of Maintainence, who paid for the legals etc, both side of the lawyers negotiated and presented that before the judge to close the case.
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    contemplating divorce.

    For my friend case, no one win. Out of court settlement. Resolved amicably...
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    contemplating divorce.

    Actually if the hubby wants to contest, he still can even with evidence of him having affair. He still can file that the wife having unreasonable behavior that leads him astray. He still can contest in many areas like maintenance, care and control, custody etc if he chose to. I hope your hubby...
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    contemplating divorce.

    Hi Sis, I'm sorry to hear what you being thru, with 2 young kids and with hubby not supportive; having affair, it is pretty hard on you. Stay strong! I'm not sure both of you want to go for church counseling or any family counseling etc.. do you think you want to give that a try or at least...
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    Laidback husband

    Hi Sis, Understand the frustrations you facing. However, there surely have area of strengths your hubby have that attracts you? We all have strengths and weakness, dont keep focusing on the weak point, but look at overall, give and take. Just as an example, for me, there are so many plannings...
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    Sexless Marriage

    Just bcos of your failure; you are labeling every local men as loser. So in other words, you are calling your dad as loser too? haha
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    Sexless Marriage

    I think this is not quite possible as the jealousy mindset will kick in.... maybe it works in western country but I doubt it will works locally....
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    Advice needed - How to settle financial matters of parents?

    Hi sis, I can understand you fully. In my family, I have 4 siblings, including myself, 5. My parents have zero financial planning, they will not touch their saving no matter what and rely heavily on the children to support them. Both my parents are old and in our hospital several times a year...
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    Husband filed for divorce

    How much you asking is quite tricky. It is not about you asking 1/7 or 2/7 or even 3/7 is that too much or too little etc... firstly, the judge will have to consider your financial means, secondly, whether your life style will be downgraded after the divorced and how much of the maintenance to...
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    Husband filed for divorce

    I don’t think this is correct, it will be based on valuation price or the market price. It will not based on the initial purchased price of the property.
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    Need some Divorce advise

    Hi I will try to answer your question:- 1) Sole custody is not really in favor. This means that if anything happens to your kids, your hubby can’t make any decision. A sensible way should be joint custody. I believe what you really want is care and control. 2) doesn’t matter if you are house...
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    Help , need advise

    I'm not sure if it is legitimate for your husband to block your access to your child. You may want to speak to your lawyer to understand the various option you have. Alternatively, I will seek advise from my buddy who is a big shot in MSF(Ministry of social and family), I will try to find out...
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    Help , need advise

    Hi I will try to answer your question:- 1)I assumed this is HDB and it is a BTO. In this case, you need a MOP of 5 years. What you can do now is (A) appeal to HDB to allow you to sell in open market, I have seen couple doing that due to divorce.(B) Sell back to HDB. But I will prefer you go for...
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    Heartbroken

    Hi, just to share, i also downloaded wechat in my phone for chatting and calls with China customers. Whatapps is blocked in China and requires VPN, even so, it is not stable. So what I'm saying, there is possibilities for work purposes..... anyway if my other half(if i have) wants to see my...
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    Fiance has been visiting prostitute because of ED

    Hi Sis, I will not touch base on what you should do with yr bf as many others have given you their opinions. At the end of the day, these are advises and you have to weight the pros and cons and make a decision that of beneificals to you. However, i would want to touch base on your BF ED issue...
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    Sorry to hear that sis. Of course since this is your matrimony home, you own half the share of the house and you have every rights to stay. However few factors you have to consider:- 1. Will your husband turns violent if he is under stress, example you keep challenging him or make things...
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    Dating after divorce

    Hi Sis, I’m sorry to hear that things didn’t work for you and your partner, but I guess at this moment of time, cut loss will be a better idea as if you invest too much emotions into this RS, you may ended up with more disappointment and hurt. Perhaps you could still find a better one in the...

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