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    Mid life crisis

    Hmm..... As the usual saying that goes, stop comparing yourself to the others. Easier said than done but try not to compare. If you feel you can't fit in already, then go find new circle of friends. I am worse than you, old (late 40s) and lonely. Whenever go out lunch with colleagues, nothing...
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    Just curious, what do you think you will do or not do ?

    My hubby has a close buddy and this buddy has a wife and 3 small daughters. Because this buddy is a 'well known' good looking fellow, many girls will fall for him and he himself is quite flirt type. When his wife was pregnant, he went to short holiday with his accounts manager. Only when the...
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    Daily insulting from the husband

    Your are such a kind gentle lady though I don't know you. Please leave him. You deserve a better husband. He is a trash husband material. Don't second think. Just divorce him. Do your homework and gather evidence. Get a good divorce lawyer.
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    Daily insulting from the husband

    Based on unreasonable behaviour. Then cite the mental abuse etc. Bad husband material. Did you scold him back ? Maybe you too gentle so he take advantage to bully you.
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    Success stories for mid 40s ?

    Have you tried tcm ? Sometimes I don't really trust words like unexplained infertility. If you have eggs and ovulate, and your hubby have the sperms, I don't see why a normal lady can't conceive. To each of her own, but to me adoption is last option when my egg reserve go to zero and I still...
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    IVF 40ish support group

    Can you drink lactose free milk during tww ? How about orange juice ?
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    Unexplained infertility

    Have you done the necessary tests and screening ? Eg. Screen for blocked fallopian tubes, motility of the sperms, etc
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    Success stories for mid 40s ?

    All the best to you too. Easier said than done but still need to learn not to worry too much and unnecessarily. I am also reminding myself. Learn to relax. My ex colleague who didn't even know she was preggy and carry on life as usual until she went to see a doc cos she thought she has acid...
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    Introducing guys into our marriage life

    Ermm .... not fair to the 'guys' you or your wife are introducing ?? The 'guys' you and your wife are introducing may be just as normal as anyone in a conservative society. You and your wife are just like playboys or playgirls making use of others just to spice up your marriage life. That is...
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    Success stories for mid 40s ?

    Keep trying ba. I hear alot of ladies miscarriage but in the end still can deliver. The body need to be 'trained' to set up a foetus environment. The lucky ones already have the prerequisite of a foetus friendly house', but for us we have to trial and error to see what we are lacking so need...
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    Success stories for mid 40s ?

    Sorry to hear about your experience. Seems there is some problem with the implantation ? Is your womb lining thickness normal ?
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    IVF in 2021?

    I got a feeling my scenario will be the same like yours. I consulted the sgh gynae and did an amh. Result is low. The gynae told me they have to extract at least 10 good quality eggs but for me , maybe only 1 egg can be extracted and not of good quality type. So I am quite hesitant to go IVF...
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    Zhu Sheng Niang Niang (注生娘娘)

    Thanks Jovine for your reply. :)
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    Zhu Sheng Niang Niang (注生娘娘)

    Hi, how to pray for a healthy baby ? Can I go pray myself ? Anyone here also go pray alone cos hubby working ?
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    Different estimated ovulation dates

    Hi, I started seeing tcm recently and with the help of the tcm doc, she estimated my ovulation date and ask me to baby dance on certain days leading to the ovulation date. I have the flo app which is quite accurate on ovulation day estimation because I usually get pre ovulation symptoms few...
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    Success stories for mid 40s ?

    Since more local women in Singapore bearing kids in their 40s, I wonder any success stories for mid 40s using own eggs ? TIA ! Need inspiration/motivation. My BIL and his wife trying 2nd child. I am still struggling for a first.
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    naseous symptom

    Hi, I have a colleague who did not have nausea symptoms when she was preggy so it is not a 'compulsory symptom'. Maybe has to do with the body constitution.
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    How do you ladies manage your finance for your TTC journey ?

    I am quite bewildered when I read some ttc ladies here failed IVF after IVF and also failed IUI but still continue to do cycle after cycles of new IVF/IUI, visit another TCM, change a gynae, etc. Are these ladies actually 'high flier' who earns at least $4k - $8k take-home pay per month ...
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    Seeking Advice on Male Infertility

    TS wanna break up with gf cos of ownself infertility ? Haha.. Didn't know got such 'self sacrificing' guy in this era. *saying in sarcastic tone* Selfish in a hidden way. Anyway, you are not alone. It is a tough road ahead but couples always fight on. Don't give up and hope you will have...

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