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Hi, I'm interested too, my girl is born in Sep 07.

It's been a couple of months since I started this thread, and I am still feeling the same way! My bb is not 6 mths old and the fact that I have started going back to work only make matters worse. Every evening when I get home, I have to endure endless gloating sessions of 'see? when I carry...

Same!Sandra, my MIL also insists that bb cannot go hungry and my bb is also getting 3 hrly feeds at 160ml... There are times when my girl can obviously drink more than that in the morning when she wakes up. I dun understand why she dun increase the volume and stretch out the feeding times...

Hi Chelsea, my maternity leave ended yesterday so now I'm back to staying with my in laws while I go to school. Miss my girl like crazy during the first few hrs, and now, wondering how they are faring at home... I'm so worried cos my girl has started kicking while I bathe her, really worried...

Hi, actually, cutting baby's hair whether during 1st mth or 4th mth is up to parents... Just that it has different meanings... the ppl at TaiMaoBi can advise you on that. I got them to come and cut my girl's hair at 4th mth 'cos my parents in law thought full mth too young, scared she will...

Oh Wenhui, I can understand how you feel! Our MILs are exactly the same kind, just that they fuss over different kinds of milk... You know, my MIL also base her understanding of bringing up children on others' experiences and whatever I have learnt from books, forums and even doctors are...

Hi ppl, I wish I can also be SAHM, but not able to, but am currently bf my 3 mth old girl too. Good thing nowadays is that most shopping malls have got nursing rooms, so I can still let her latch on in private when she is hungry. If not, I feed my girl in the car while hubby is driving...

Yeah... perhaps I will do that. Now trying to 'tahan' it as long as possible, haha... Think I will not rebond if the stylist can recommend me something easy to maintain and will not look a fright on me ;p

Hmmm... Cos my hair is real long now and needs a cut badly, but it's so frizzy n curly it will be unsightly if I dun straighten it... ;p Thanks for the advice!

Hi, does anyone know if it is ok to rebond my hair? I'm currently breastfeeding my baby...

Hi Gitz, guess probably all of us facing some aspects of the same situation... Like I mentioned in my previous posts, my MIL is possessive and likes to criticize me. Many times, when all of us are ard, she will lecture us on how we should not spoil baby, it's ok if she cries, dun make it a habit...

Zinta, for what does ur SIL want to hog ur baby for?! She's so weird... Not grandchild also so possessive... But looking at my own SIL, can't help but wonder if mine isn't the same like urs... My SIL isn't as bad as my MIL, at least she won't harp abt my bf. But then, try having an audience...

Perle, sometimes just dun understand how come MILs are always like this. Don't they used to be somebody else's DIL too? I know mine went thru plenty of hardships when she was younger, used to go on n on abt how she was being ill treated, then how come she is doing the exact same thing to me...

Really thankful to all of you for sharing and putting up with me... I know I go on n on... but without this place to vent my frustrations, think I will go crazy soon... sigh...

Tortoise, I totally agree with you when you said that men will be men! They cannot understand our need to care for and be loved by our babies. Just last night, I dunno whether to cry (somemore) or to laugh. My notorious mil stuck again and when I started tearing up, my hubby just said "if you...

123, tried telling her nicely already... All my words simply flew above her head one... I don't mean to sound mean, but it seems that all the things her friends (or even the aunties from the mkt) say, are god's own truth, and what me and my hubby say, are just useless rumors/gossip/rubbish! I...

Tortoise... doesn't work regarding the milk thing. I've tried it before, and she will just say "it's ok, I'm already carrying her, you give me the bottle lor'. She sound so magnanimous, sigh.... After 2 mths plus, she must still personally GUIDE my hand when I bottlefeed my girl. Like I dunno...

Hwey hwey, dun give up! I'm a first time mom too, and my problem is slightly different when it comes to bathing my girl. My mom didn't take care of my hubby or my sil, so she totally refused to help me initially, say she no expereince, it is a big responsibility. Worse, her friends told her no...

Sigh... My MIL is back from Genting... I was bfding my girl and the moment they got home, my girl was passed from MIL to FIL to SIL. Sigh... half way thru all the cooing and aahing, my FIL realized my girl was sticking out her tongue and making all the hungry faces, so he asked if I fed her, to...

You tried tasting the sample? My sis in law's friend switched formulas very frequently cos her baby cannot seem to settle on any milk for long. Eat 1 mth, dun eat, muz change and so on. So she got left overs, to avoid wastage, she DRANK them herself and said Dumex is salty. Dunno if true or not...