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I think I know what you mean, but can elaborate? Is it one rage then the other one fuel the rage? @matchachoc ’s hubby still acknowledged his problems and will to seek help. I didn’t talk back for 2 yrs,1st yr generally cause I was pregger so was afraid. But it didnt get better and you...

Do you think he would agree? I meant he went for counselling and all already. Showed effort but still the same. And do you understand why he’s like that? Childhood issue or what which u may sympathies with.

Mine has too. Wouldn’t go for counselling cause he said it’s useless, plus also embarrassing? Anws, he slapped me before when my child was 8mo. Don’t know why I stayed. Few mths later pushed me quite violently and half a yr later ever put his hands around my neck tho he didn’t put force. Can...

Thanks for reading twinsmommy. I'm really grateful that I have gotten responses because it really pushes me to think what I really want. The biggest challenge for me is getting the custody of my toddler AND making sure that I can give him a better environment than now. I think that is why people...

Thanks :) I need to work on what you said because of the possible impact on my kid. I have had friends who just lose a parent due to ugly divorce and grow up broken...

Got it both cindy and Mongkok. Thanks for the clarity! I always hold back as I’m scared of losing my kid...

Sometimes I see his effort but it still happens. What if I have another kid with him but it’s not improving... I feel that I’m responsible for the impact on the kids. He said counselling is a waste of money. It’s very sad that he does not see the gravity of our issue even though he said that...

Thanks for reverting. I think there is a triggering point while it does not fully explain his behaviour, as the small explosions appeared shortly after we got married. The triggering point involved a family member of mine who does not appear to be pleased with my hub’s behaviours sometimes. It...

Hi, glad to see that things are getting better as you work hard towards keeping your family togather... I’ve been reading around and noticed a lot of sadness, anger and thoughts of D stems from straying hubs. While I don’t have a straying hub, I’m tormented with his anger and verbal abuses...

I'm with Dr Paul Tseng. He's quite the chill pill who doesn't bother you with unnecessary information (if you are the over-thinking sort who will get stressed out), and wouldn't make you take necessary tests/ultrasounds. He's calm, experienced and an advocate of full natural birth. However, if...

Hi mummies, anyone have their 20w detailed scan yet? What should we be expecting? Thanks.

Hey elyn02, my gynae is also from TMC and delivers at MtA, MtE novena or TMC! :) I asked the nurse before...if he delivers away from TMC, where his clinic is, there will be inpatient charges since he needs to go over to your hospital to visit you :( Your clinic is so nice!

Hi xue, I'm getting my mum to do confinement for me since she's a really good cook and is aware on what to take note of for the child and I. I guess, you can ask more experienced family members on things to do and things to avoid on your confinement cause it will affect your health directly...