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Well, usually intimacy got lesser from dating till marriage till long term of marriage. I guess its kind of normal for most married couples. It may be due to stress, age, tiredness etc issue. Maybe you can try have a talk with your hubby and see what went wrong. Try to see if things can be...

Did you try to talk to him? Was he this way before that? If doesn't, it might be that some issue/stress at work or outside, which result in his behaviour. Of course it isn't normal to be treated like that. You have to think if you are able to accept this kind of 'torture' for the next few...

You need to ask yourself if you really tend to forgive him, and he's willing to change and stop going there. Fyi, some become addiction to prostitute. If he really did those in the past, probably he's one of the addictor as well. I have a friend who's her ex hubby was addicted to...

ya..usually is 100 days to be exact... but better to ask if the others is pan tang or not

I think depend on self belief. There's no right or wrong. It depend on your belief, culture, and even religion. However, most feel that giving ang pow doesn't sound right.

I will say if the message (eg I miss you) is something u are afraid to show to, or wish to hide, then the message is consider as flirty.. If it's something that you aren't afraid to show to, then it's not consider as. It's similar to our day to day work life. Like using 'dear' doesn't mean is...

To answer your question 1) How did you find out so much info like hotel bookings on their infidelity/affairs? (What i found is whatsapp chats - are these valid as evidence for divorce?) >> Usually email? Or via PI. Some engage PI to gather evidence of their partner having affair. Whatsapp...

aside for that, there's no difference with filing divorce...

Did you have the evidence already? Once you have, you can confront him. Do note evidence usually only valid for 6 months :) But to be honest, filing adultery and filing 'unreasonable behaviour' is similar. It's just a reason for divorce

Agreed with the rest. Get evidence, and file for divorce.

Well, it's part of his character, and since at start he's like that, and you chosen him, it's the path that you have chosen. Yes indeed he said will change but never, and I believe its not the first time already. Probably more than 5 times? If you cannot take it during the 3rd time, you would...

No credit score means you have super bad debt or creditworthiness... Not only hdb loan, you cant even apply for credit card etc.

Well, it depend if you can trust him again. It will take some time to build trust back again. But are you willing to give him the chance and to trust him again? If answer is no, then perhaps you need to think if separation/divorce is the only way...

Well, as long as you not paying for it, let him be There are some whom have just 'nice' for themself, still can afford cars etc too

Cool down.. Nothing to get furious/angry of what others trying to stir. I believe we all have the 'eyes' to judge if it's relevant at all. But I do have to admit that when there's some issue that happened, both are at fault. Both really need to sit down and think what when wrong. And try to...

Dear Lostsoul&rain, Well, for deleted message, you can retrieve it from the phone, if he haven't empty the trash. Google out, and you will know how to restore/retrieve the message. As for adding girls in FB, it really depending. I do at times add random people (guys and gals) in facebook as...

The happy the way you are, is the best revenge :)

Then use this as a chance to nego with him on house matter :) Since he want to rush, and you not in the rush, you are at the upper hand

to @p-k I agreed with wendy_reborn. Sometimes its better to let go than to hold on. Seeing your case, I too feel that he has lost the love for you.

Well, when a person changes, all kind of excuse will be given. It all depend on what you really want. What we can do is only giving you advice. Choices is still yours to make. If you feel you should give him another chance, by all means and go ahead. But do think what if he break this chance...