decembergirl
New Member
First of all I would like to say that I am really blessed to have very nice in laws who has been treating me like their own daughter.
But I can’t stand their dirty and messy house. Both my in laws are working and my MIL looks tired most of the time and she doesnt have the time to do the cleaning after work.My husband has 2 more younger sisters who r still staying with my in laws.
The house smells of dirty laundry. Things are not organized.food wrappers thrown on the floor. Leftover food on the table.the toilets are really unsanitary with mold on the tiles,choked drain with hair and unwashed clothes everywhere on the toilet floor. Sometimes even used sanitary pads on the floor.The kitchen has piled up unwashed dishes,stale food not thrown away and the dustbin is full and kept open. Even Ants and cockroaches are feasting on it overnight!!
I have a 1 year old child who just started crawling and I am worried that she might pick up litters around the house and start putting it into her mouth.
I told my husband about the issue but I understand that he has to take care of his parent’s feelings.
Problem is I can’t leave my 1yo daughter with them with the mess and filth.They have been hinting to take her over the weekend without me and my husband to stay overnight at their place.I have been saying all kinds of excuses not to let them have her. I have anxiety the moment they hint on having her over the weekends.I have anxiety and i feel stress being around their house.
how do i handle this problem w/o hurting their feelings? I wish for them to have a clean house so i can let my daughter play at my in law place with peace. Opinions please.
But I can’t stand their dirty and messy house. Both my in laws are working and my MIL looks tired most of the time and she doesnt have the time to do the cleaning after work.My husband has 2 more younger sisters who r still staying with my in laws.
The house smells of dirty laundry. Things are not organized.food wrappers thrown on the floor. Leftover food on the table.the toilets are really unsanitary with mold on the tiles,choked drain with hair and unwashed clothes everywhere on the toilet floor. Sometimes even used sanitary pads on the floor.The kitchen has piled up unwashed dishes,stale food not thrown away and the dustbin is full and kept open. Even Ants and cockroaches are feasting on it overnight!!
I have a 1 year old child who just started crawling and I am worried that she might pick up litters around the house and start putting it into her mouth.
I told my husband about the issue but I understand that he has to take care of his parent’s feelings.
Problem is I can’t leave my 1yo daughter with them with the mess and filth.They have been hinting to take her over the weekend without me and my husband to stay overnight at their place.I have been saying all kinds of excuses not to let them have her. I have anxiety the moment they hint on having her over the weekends.I have anxiety and i feel stress being around their house.
how do i handle this problem w/o hurting their feelings? I wish for them to have a clean house so i can let my daughter play at my in law place with peace. Opinions please.