Do you feel there's a need to 'report' your whereabouts daily?

vallow8

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Do you feel there's a need to 'report' your whereabouts daily?Do you feel there's a need to 'report' your whereabouts daily?

Since young I don't have such a habit.
I mean I will of course inform my parents where am I going and what time I will be home, but they'll never keep asking where am I what I am doing etc.

My husband will be texting me when the clock strikes my off work time asking me where am I. And subsequently almost every 15 mins once, until I am home.

I find it so annoying to be honest as it stresses me out! Apparently this is 'concern' and the best part is even my parents agreed with him omg..and if he goes out with his friends etc and my in-law asks about him.. if my answer is 'I don't know' or 'I'm not sure' they'll nag at me!
 


Do you feel there's a need to 'report' your whereabouts daily?Do you feel there's a need to 'report' your whereabouts daily?

Since young I don't have such a habit.
I mean I will of course inform my parents where am I going and what time I will be home, but they'll never keep asking where am I what I am doing etc.

My husband will be texting me when the clock strikes my off work time asking me where am I. And subsequently almost every 15 mins once, until I am home.

I find it so annoying to be honest as it stresses me out! Apparently this is 'concern' and the best part is even my parents agreed with him omg..and if he goes out with his friends etc and my in-law asks about him.. if my answer is 'I don't know' or 'I'm not sure' they'll nag at me!

Try to talk to him about this. Its very unhealthy for him to do such.
For myself, as long as my partner off work message me n when home msg me is good enough. But if staying together, rch home msg me don't need already.
As for your in law case, same. Try talk to them.
 
Talked to him, he said he's worried that something might happen to me omg..

As for in-laws, they find it weird that as a wife, I don't even know my husband's whereabouts.. am I supposed to track him down or something lol..
 
Talked to him, he said he's worried that something might happen to me omg..

As for in-laws, they find it weird that as a wife, I don't even know my husband's whereabouts.. am I supposed to track him down or something lol..

Well, worrying is one thing. But not up to every 15mins text u ba. Tell him later while reading his text n crossing road, later hit by car how? If say off work and home msg him (provided he's not home yet) then is fine.

For inlaw case, i doubt you need to track his whereabout everytime lo.
 
D habit only starts when u got married?

While I never had 2 "report" my whereabouts 2 my parents... I do let my DH knows where i m or whether i m off wk when i m due 2 finish my day... he does d same... he wld go a step further by telling me he is on d bus/taxi... n when he reached he will also let me know dat he has reached d destination...

Having said dat, we dont expect constant updates... when he tells me he has reached his destination, I will just reply okie n 2 have a great day ahead. N when he is done, he will just let me know dat he is done n is headed home or some other place again.

As 2 whether I know where he is going when he is out wif friends, I guess, it's really about trust. While I dont expect him 2 "report", he will tell me... N naturally, when I m out wif friends, I will just tell him where I will b...

I guess, d feeling is different when u r asked den "report" and 2 "inform" without asking...
 
D habit only starts when u got married?

While I never had 2 "report" my whereabouts 2 my parents... I do let my DH knows where i m or whether i m off wk when i m due 2 finish my day... he does d same... he wld go a step further by telling me he is on d bus/taxi... n when he reached he will also let me know dat he has reached d destination...

Having said dat, we dont expect constant updates... when he tells me he has reached his destination, I will just reply okie n 2 have a great day ahead. N when he is done, he will just let me know dat he is done n is headed home or some other place again.

As 2 whether I know where he is going when he is out wif friends, I guess, it's really about trust. While I dont expect him 2 "report", he will tell me... N naturally, when I m out wif friends, I will just tell him where I will b...

I guess, d feeling is different when u r asked den "report" and 2 "inform" without asking...
I find it getting more annoying after we got married and my work load is getting heavier.

Yea I guess so too, never had to 'report' to my parents, so when he so eagerly wanted to know my whereabouts when I am so predictable (I'm either at work or at home) I feel..weird. =/
 
In this case, y dont u have a htht with him?

4 me... we had dat talk when we were newly weds... not cos he didnt report... but cos sometimes when he was out wif friends drinking, n i told him i wld go 2 bed 1st... he wont msg me anymore... however, i wld not sleep well since i know he wasnt home yet... but since i dunno where or wat happened, i tend 2 worry... so we had d talk... even thu i have gone 2 bed, it wld still b gd 4 him 2 msg so dat if n when i wake up in d middle of d nite, i have info about him...

of cos... it's wat i expect of him... i wld do d same 4 him too... relationship is a 2 way street... communication is v impt.
 

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