Why Married?

QueenQ

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What do you all think? Is staying married so bad nowadays?

I have a colleague filing for divorce with her husband. They have married for more than 10 years. Got 2 kids and the elder is having PSLE this year. She claimed that she have enough bully by her MIL and un-supportive husband. Understand that they have been staying with her In-Law home after their married. Found out that she has move out of the house since end of last year.

Why do they marry and have kids in the first place? So sad for the kids for having such parents.
 
Well, many of times, we married because we want to spent the rest of time with the person. We want to accept his/her good and bad, as long as both are happily together.
But many of times, things changes and may not be that good as before. The world outside is full of attractions which may lead one to astray. There are many reason behind, and well, it depend on how both couple cope with it.
 
Staying married isn't bad if with a good person/environment, etc...

Staying married enable u to buy 'things' or upgrading your lifestyle by leveraging on each other financial strength.. in addition to the love thingy..

Nowadays, no one will stay on ( a marriage, job, situation) and endure hardship if one assess and clearly conclude that he/she will fair much better if left alone. Everyone weighs their opportunity cost.

Similarly if it comes to your own children.. if they are suffering in their marriage, what would be your advice to them? (Say your child is financially independent, well educated)

Well, everyone wants to be in a positive situation that will make u a better person.To each of his own.

One man's meat is another man's poison. Hence, just send our blessing will do.
 

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