jayjayqueenie
Active Member
my husband will go into rage sometimes. this my parents have witnessed a few times. my father will give him some opinion. but my mother will do the opposite.
she will educate me whenever something happens. in summary, my husband goes into rage due to bad mood. i told my mum that sometimes i fear my husband but she does not say anything other than educating me instead. and sometimes infront of my husband.
i have hoped and even told her that even a simple way of asking him to cool down will help me a lot. even my father will also try to talk things out nicely.
but her exact words to me are, “please la it is your marriage. why get me into the picture?”
when i hear that my heart gets broken and disappointed. even to the extent that i really hate her for leaving me in the ditch when fights happen infront of her (and my father is not around). i thought i could seek refuge but now i feel alone.
now i am trying very hard to come to terms that my mother is like this. after a few incidents i have come to realise that i can’t change my mother.
is there any of you who had similar issues with your mother and manage to come to terms with it ?
she will educate me whenever something happens. in summary, my husband goes into rage due to bad mood. i told my mum that sometimes i fear my husband but she does not say anything other than educating me instead. and sometimes infront of my husband.
i have hoped and even told her that even a simple way of asking him to cool down will help me a lot. even my father will also try to talk things out nicely.
but her exact words to me are, “please la it is your marriage. why get me into the picture?”
when i hear that my heart gets broken and disappointed. even to the extent that i really hate her for leaving me in the ditch when fights happen infront of her (and my father is not around). i thought i could seek refuge but now i feel alone.
now i am trying very hard to come to terms that my mother is like this. after a few incidents i have come to realise that i can’t change my mother.
is there any of you who had similar issues with your mother and manage to come to terms with it ?