this is not a hate post. just sharing the info here to help other victims.
some time ago, my husband met a chinese massage service provider (she called herself Xiao Lin and used WeChat ID Smile*a kiss) at a massage place. according to my husband, they became friends and chatted frequently on phone/messaging app. she was a very soft, gentle and sweet girl that did not take long to win his heart. without much guessing, she brought him to her place for intimate interactions and filled him with sorrowful tales of her "personal life stories".
like what you'd get on the taiwan/hk/china tv soap operas, her stories involved a heartwrenching account of being ditched by a steel hearted lover, single handed parenting of a young child, low income with a family of needs, old and cancer-stricken parent at home and of course, her poor earning power. coupled with very proficient tactics, my husband grew a strong attachement for her that wrecked our family. he eventually paid for her "parent's medical bills", "mortgage overdues", "chronic debts from poor earning power" and even deck up gifts and gifts to embrace her or make her feel she's loved.
in the end, i filed for divorce proceeding, after a long period of depression and several suicidal attempts. i decided to call it quits after finding my confused husband at crossroads. he wanted to keep our marriage and watch our children grow but was not able to break his emotional attachment for her. our marriage is not reconciliable anymore.
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what i learned from this event nonetheless:
1) never take any relationship for granted. nothing stays the same forever. tell your loved ones you love them now before it gets too late.
2) even the most steadfast, honest man can fall victim to the professional trappers. you can never be their match unless the man realises it himself in time.
3) when the man is blinded by mistake, you can't wake him up because he'd chosen to believe in what he wants to believe in.
4) be clear headed with what you want for yourself. never let yourself be shortchanged or sidelined because you think you don't deserve - THIS IS NOT TRUE.
5) those women know more than you do, they are the professionals in this trade. they always know what to do or say to get the men's hearts. she constantly told my husband that she had never wanted to divide his family, he then turned to grow a stronger compassion for her and her inferior complex. it takes a strong individual to see through her professional tactics, unfortunately, my husband wasn't bright enough.
some time ago, my husband met a chinese massage service provider (she called herself Xiao Lin and used WeChat ID Smile*a kiss) at a massage place. according to my husband, they became friends and chatted frequently on phone/messaging app. she was a very soft, gentle and sweet girl that did not take long to win his heart. without much guessing, she brought him to her place for intimate interactions and filled him with sorrowful tales of her "personal life stories".
like what you'd get on the taiwan/hk/china tv soap operas, her stories involved a heartwrenching account of being ditched by a steel hearted lover, single handed parenting of a young child, low income with a family of needs, old and cancer-stricken parent at home and of course, her poor earning power. coupled with very proficient tactics, my husband grew a strong attachement for her that wrecked our family. he eventually paid for her "parent's medical bills", "mortgage overdues", "chronic debts from poor earning power" and even deck up gifts and gifts to embrace her or make her feel she's loved.
in the end, i filed for divorce proceeding, after a long period of depression and several suicidal attempts. i decided to call it quits after finding my confused husband at crossroads. he wanted to keep our marriage and watch our children grow but was not able to break his emotional attachment for her. our marriage is not reconciliable anymore.
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what i learned from this event nonetheless:
1) never take any relationship for granted. nothing stays the same forever. tell your loved ones you love them now before it gets too late.
2) even the most steadfast, honest man can fall victim to the professional trappers. you can never be their match unless the man realises it himself in time.
3) when the man is blinded by mistake, you can't wake him up because he'd chosen to believe in what he wants to believe in.
4) be clear headed with what you want for yourself. never let yourself be shortchanged or sidelined because you think you don't deserve - THIS IS NOT TRUE.
5) those women know more than you do, they are the professionals in this trade. they always know what to do or say to get the men's hearts. she constantly told my husband that she had never wanted to divide his family, he then turned to grow a stronger compassion for her and her inferior complex. it takes a strong individual to see through her professional tactics, unfortunately, my husband wasn't bright enough.
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