Hi mommies, this is a bit sensitive but its about my PIL. They have 3 grandchildren altogether, 2 from my SIL and 1 from us. She has a 4yo boy and a 3yo girl. I have a 3yo boy. Thing is, we seldom meet my PIL due to husband’s work shifts. But we do visit whenever he’s off duty. We make time for them. I know there’s bound to be competition. But what I don’t understand is, every time the 3 of us visit them without SIL around, they tend to compare the kids. My son was the first to speak you see.. I don’t want to boast but it seems like she’s always speaking so highly of the other kids and forget that she has another grandson right in front of her. Like ‘ohh ___ is so smart now.. know how to do this and that’ but ignoring my child’s developments when he’s right there. It’s like she wants them to do better than him. I don’t know if this is just me... But I don’t know how to tell my husband about this. Many times I told him, he said it’s because we rarely spend time w them. Well that’s not fair is it..? They make time once a week to visit my SIL at her place but they can’t do the same for my son. It’s a matter of want and don’t want to me. If you really cared enough you would also make time for your other grandchild. He was sick the whole week, my Mil didn’t even care to call or ask about him but I saw her visiting my SIL on her instastory. I’m really just disappointed I guess that my husband is not noticing all these just cos he doesn’t feel the pinch. How do I tell him.. I don’t want my child to feel left out or less love from his paternal grandparents. That’s all