@toblerone
你好。Google注生娘娘come across this forum thread. Thanks for sharing all the knowledge. I would like to consult you on some items:
1. I had an abortion almost 10 years ago while my hubs is also involved with another previously. I dont rem the exact dates but I went to a 师傅 in toa payoh and 还业障 by burning a multi-layered lotus paper flower folded from joss paper. Will it helped? Somehow I feel I've not done enough.
2. I am trying to eat vegetarian to atone for my mistakes as well as my husband's but it has been tough because as much as he hears my concern, my husband believes that I need red meat to build my lining which is important for implantation. My lining was thin and it's a doctor's recommendation. I'm trying to eat vegetarian at least on the days I can e.g when I lunch with friends etc. I rem you also mention that cannot eat until family unhappy because also no use. So I'm practicing what is within my means.
3. We have tried conceiving for 5 years, failed 3 ivfs and several iuis. We did our 4th ivf, due for ET in 6 weeks. Should we proceed before the 超度?Can we still do 超度 if I am luckily successful ?
4. 超度 is ok as long as during 7th mth right? I really can't rem when I did the op but I would like to right things, make amends and even make sure things are ok for my future bb, if I'm lucky to even blessed with one. What do i need to bring?
5. 抄药师琉璃光如来本愿功德经can use 作文本and black ballpoint pen? How to 抄properly? Just start with the title and finish the entire passage? Other than keep buddha in thoughts, wash hands and bath, if 吃荤, can 念《净口业真言》? How many times? After finish writing the script, need to say anything to end off the process? I want to do it right.
6. I'm trying to recite 心经and 大悲咒as recommended. Would like to cfm that I need to again either eat vegetarian b4 the recitation, or 念《净口业真言》, then read the 开经偈 x 1, title of 心经 x 1, script of 心经×7, title of 大悲咒 x 1, script of 大悲咒 x 7, then read 回向, then 《补阙真言》x 3? I don't have a buddha nor guan yin altar at home.
8. Is it futile to pray to 注生娘娘still, considering I've so many "outstanding" stuff... we wanted to go to the toa payoh temple to pray but after reading so much, we wonder if its better to do all those above first.
9. My parents don't run business. My father in law sells vegetables. Both our parents pray to guan yin and has an altar in their homes. They are not vegetarians though.
Thanks for your help.
P.S. If 老师is busy, also appreciate whoever that has received similar advice from 老师to advise. Thank you very much.