Hi all, I delivered my baby via emergency c-section at 36 Weeks due to bleeding from placenta previa.
Baby was in NICU for 6 days and I have been guilty ever since. I have not been able to forgive myself.
Anyone has a similar experience and willing to share?
Mummy, that guilt is your post-natal depression talking. I had the same guilt when I gave birth via Csect cos baby was in distress. I was having post-natal depression and was crying many times daily for a few weeks. Remember, whatever happens, happens for a reason. And you are not to be blamed. There's nothing you can do to prevent placenta previa and this is all predestined. I hope your baby is fine now. But whatever it is, please don't blame yourself. A mummy will always feel she could do better for her baby and will beat herself up day and night for not doing better but in actual fact, you have carried your baby for 36 weeks and would definitely carry your baby for 360 weeks even if you had a choice. So don't beat yourself up. Embrace being a mummy and enjoy spending time with your little sweetheart. They do grow very fast. :-( And oooh.. don't listen to people who have too many opinions about what is right and what is wrong. Just go with whatever YOU think is best. Every mummy will definitively do their best for their baby. *big hugs from one mummy to another*
Hi mummy, yes, don feel guilty, that is out of your control.. I believe you have given whatever you can including your love to your baby in the 36weeks.. ️️
I give birth my son earlier too due to insufficient of water.. have to c-sec the next day.. my son is small size due to come out earlier but he is growing well..
My colleague give birth her gal and her gal was 1kg plus only but her gal is veey healthy and she is in P2 now!
So not to worry.. and pray that you baby is well now
You must rest well so that can take good care of you baby
Actually there's nothing to feel guilty about. Baby is almost full term and most importantly, baby is out safe and sound. I also delivered at 36 weeks after a huge bleeding due to placenta detachment. I was v glad baby was okay and that's most important.Hi all, I delivered my baby via emergency c-section at 36 Weeks due to bleeding from placenta previa.
Baby was in NICU for 6 days and I have been guilty ever since. I have not been able to forgive myself.
Anyone has a similar experience and willing to share?
Actually there's nothing to feel guilty about. Baby is almost full term and most importantly, baby is out safe and sound. I also delivered at 36 weeks after a huge bleeding due to placenta detachment. I was v glad baby was okay and that's most important.
Do take care and enjoy the time with baby!